Flatline w/real experiences and PIED. A few questions please help!

[druidzen]

First I want to start off by saying this community is awesome and want to thank you all for the support!

So I have a few questions about my reboot and want to high light some victories.!! I am 21 years old and started watching porn at 13(8th grade). I've had PIED since I was 17 years old and knew from the get go it was from porn. I am now about 100 days (WOOT!) into my reboot but still seem to be in a flatline-ish period. I get semi-hard morning woods or no wood at all and get normal firm erections when I fantasize about REAL WOMEN and past experiences. I mean I fantasized about real women long before I started watching porn so it's natural right? I've also had super vivid fucked up dreams about relapsing but that's just my brain trying to get its fix. Fast forward to last night when I went to a rave and danced with an attractive girl but was only semi-hard. I was also around a lot of scantily clad rave girls as well but I thought this is ok because they're real women right? So to the questions and good news.

The good news:
Haven't PMO'd in over 100 days!

Got a girls number! Bonus we talked and are both interested in the same things!

Questions:

Am I nearing the end of the flatline?
Why are my erections only semi-hard in morning wood and real encounters with women? Sometimes not at all?
Should I stop fantasizing about REAL women? I've been doing it for years!
If you have been in the same boat as me how long after you stopped fantasizing did you start having real erections?
What am I doing wrong?

 

[OSS]

Congrats on 100 days man

1. I'm not so sure you're in a flatline tbh.

2. Because you haven't completely rebooted(indicated by lack MW) or rewired(indicated by non erections when with women) yet, if you were flatlining I don't think you would be getting semis. Although some people are able to have 100% sex and don't get MW

3. It would probably help to stop, but don't tell yourself off if you slip up.

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5. If you're staying away from porn you're not doing anything wrong. But 2 things that could help your erections when with women is to stop masturbating if you still do. Second, start rewiring. If you're unfamiliar with what rewiring is it's basically spending time with women hugging, kissing, holding hands, oral, sex... All of these are rewiring, besides not watching porn this is the second biggest factor in recovering from PIED