Reached 90 days! Now what ?

[Malibu]

Whatsup guys,

I'm 19 years old, and today I reached 90 days with zero P, M, or O. Without PMO, I've been feeling better, and I honestly think I will never watch porn again. No PMO is awesome. Also, I've been getting MW some mornings, which is a success in and of itself. BUT, I haven't rewired at all because I've just been too scared I won't be able to get it up again. I'd rather just wait to heal more. I know everyone says just try and see what happens, but if you're like me and have failed to get it up in the past, you will feel me when I say that's easier said than done. Can anyone offer me any advice from here? I'm thinking about buying some Viagra or something and trying to have sex, is that smart? I've just reached my goal of 90 days and I don't know what to do now, I don't really feel 'completely cured' or anything. Also, I want to say thank you to everyone on this forum, you guys are awesome. I'd appreciate any advice!

Thanks

 

[OSS]

Congrats on reaching 90 days

I say definitely try rewiring, but perhaps hold off from orgasm for now. I realize it's easier said than done I've failed with 3 different girl myself. Keep in mind rewiring isn't all about getting it up, simply hugging watching movies, kissing, giving her a great time with oral and all that is rewiring too. If you're not too confident you could wait another month or two but I've seen a couple veteran rebooters say pushing it past 6 months without orgasm is not really necessary. You could try viagra, some people are against it, I'm personally not. But be careful you don't end up relying on it, take some to help start the rewiring process and taper off with the more experience you get.

Curious, how much improvement have you seen in terms of depression/anxiety, motivation and general clarity of thought?

 

[Malibu]

Thanks for replying OSS.

Curious, how much improvement have you seen in terms of depression/anxiety, motivation and general clarity of thought?

To be honest, I'm not sure if I've really noticed any crazy improvements in depression or anxiety. In fact, I might even say I've had some semblance of depression due to the fact that all my friends are getting laid, and I'm unable to do so (I'm in college). It's really tough. But, I think I do feel better physically, and I think it's a little easier to workout and study now. I guess I have seen an increase in motivation, now that you mention it. But even without crazy huge improvements like the ones you mention, going 3 months without PMO has convinced me that porn really is unnatural and bad for us

 

[OSS]

Good that you've had some improvement man, just takes a little longer for us younger guys. Keep grinding, we'll get there soon enough

 

[Viper]

Start another 90 days  8)
I don't think anyone said you couldn't have sex during the reboot.
Just not with Rosey Palmer  8)