23, virgin, erection problem


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Spanish speaker here.

The truth is that I do not know how to tell this. 5 days ago, on Saturday, I met a girl who had been wanting to be with her for a long time, everything was going well until the time came I could not have sex.

I am a healthy boy, I study medicine at a good university and I'm doing well, I have a social life and good friends, I usually go to the gym or do some sports. I've been watching porn since I was a teenager, harder and harder, more and more wild until a year or so ago I started watching bdsm and things like that, not all days but for several hours when I do it.

I don't know if what happened on Saturday was because I was too nervous, my expectations were different, or watching porn has changed me.

I really need help, I have not seen any porn for 5 days, without masturbating and doing nothing. Every time I find myself more nervous-anxious, today I seek medical help but with the pandemic the only thing they give me at the moment is by phone with a general practitioner, I hope they can give me something to help me.

I just need some hope, please help me, I don't know what to do.

Thank you.


Hey man,you know what you should do.There is only one thing you should do if you ever want to have funcitonal dick.ABSTAIN from PMO forever and let the time heal you I suggest you hard mode(no MO) to begin with


I'm right there with you. I'm 25 and recently met a girl who made me have the same realization. I have PIED and am on day 14 of quitting PMO and everything else. It's been very difficult for me mentally but I'm committed to it.

Regardless of what happens with the girl, you've had an awakening and can now solve this problem for the rest of your life. This is at least how I'm approaching my situation. It's a tough spot to be in and this has been one of my worst weeks ever, but we can commit to changing so we never have to deal with this again. We can do it. Find distractions, stay busy, and give it time.

Nacho C

Hola hermano,

qué buen testimonio! Me ayudó mucho. Ojalá sigas peleando!

Me gustaría tomar contacto contigo para conversar sobre nuestras luchas. A mi me pasaron muchas cosas como las que contas.

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Espero que te sirva y me gustaría conocer tu opinión. Si puedes, xfa, deja un like y un comentario de aliento. Un abrazo,



It really suck that the problem comes forth at the worst of timings. This problem usually does. Abstain from P, preferably for the rest of your life. Stay strong.