grantis
Member
Hey Guys! Thank you for creating a community like this! super appreciative that this exists.
I failed to quit on my own.
No real a surprise there tbh.
Quitting is absolute hell and cannot be done alone. I've used several therapists, tried previous forms, but I've never felt the absolute necessity to really quit. Don't get me wrong, I've tired to give porn up many times yet I always go back and it always gets worse. More and more extreme porn variants enter my browsing extravaganzas, and the ED, DE, etc. get worse. IM DONE. The reason I'm here is cause i had some scary suicidal thoughts last night after a particularly bad 3 weeks.
Im not alone and there is help here and elsewhere. No way I'm giving up on life until i beat this addiction.
r/NoFap, therapists, Covenanteyes, lock down times, books, accountability partners, and SAA. All methods I've tried. All of these methods can be effective and they are effective for three reasons: Community, habit formation, and personal choice. I've failed at integrating any of these factors into quitting this addiction.
I gotta own my failures. I have to recognize i have not put in the effort and focus into breaking this addiction or building community who believes I can.
Today im donating $5 for the start of this reboot. each time i relapse, I pay an additional $5.
Each week i will make a post.
90 days is the goal.
I failed to quit on my own.
No real a surprise there tbh.
Quitting is absolute hell and cannot be done alone. I've used several therapists, tried previous forms, but I've never felt the absolute necessity to really quit. Don't get me wrong, I've tired to give porn up many times yet I always go back and it always gets worse. More and more extreme porn variants enter my browsing extravaganzas, and the ED, DE, etc. get worse. IM DONE. The reason I'm here is cause i had some scary suicidal thoughts last night after a particularly bad 3 weeks.
Im not alone and there is help here and elsewhere. No way I'm giving up on life until i beat this addiction.
r/NoFap, therapists, Covenanteyes, lock down times, books, accountability partners, and SAA. All methods I've tried. All of these methods can be effective and they are effective for three reasons: Community, habit formation, and personal choice. I've failed at integrating any of these factors into quitting this addiction.
I gotta own my failures. I have to recognize i have not put in the effort and focus into breaking this addiction or building community who believes I can.
Today im donating $5 for the start of this reboot. each time i relapse, I pay an additional $5.
Each week i will make a post.
90 days is the goal.
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