Long refractory period

Stiffy999

Member
Hey guys I just wanted to see if you have any opinion or experience with this.It is really fucking pathetic but after ejaculating I can't get it up at all for at least 2 hours and even if I manage to it is only by manual stimulation I mean my libido just drops dead and I'm completely satisfied for next 24 hours and have 0 sex thoughts.(the same thing I noticed when I used to watch porn-my friends commented that they masturbate to it like 2 or 3 times in an hour and only then they are satisfied while i rarely watched it more than once a day).So my question is does it get better with time did any of you guys notice that and does anybody knows why this happens ? I hope this doesn't have to do with anything physical related to my willy.
 

Flesh

Member
More context ? Are you in a streak/recovery state ? How long ?

If u're "recovered", in a healthy individuel, sexual satiety has a genetic component. In a egoistic way of thinking, just get to do something else right. But ofc if u're concerned about your partner pleasure, I would learn about all the things around sex, which are foreplay and pleasures you can provide to your partner not using your dick but the rest of your body or toys (and there is a lot of different ways and degrees of pleasure to learn).
 

Stiffy999

Member
More context ? Are you in a streak/recovery state ? How long ?

If u're "recovered", in a healthy individuel, sexual satiety has a genetic component. In a egoistic way of thinking, just get to do something else right. But ofc if u're concerned about your partner pleasure, I would learn about all the things around sex, which are foreplay and pleasures you can provide to your partner not using your dick but the rest of your body or toys (and there is a lot of different ways and degrees of pleasure to learn).
I've been rebooting since the beginning of this year and last 5 months is hardmode.I don't consider myself cured because of this problem that I experience.I mean of course I do other things to satisfy my gf but it is frustrating that I have to wait so long for round two
 

Flesh

Member
yes :/ , look over internet, there must be plenty of guy in your situation and i'm sure some have found "run arounds"
 

Cp6uH

Member
This sounds awful brother.Maybe you should try to go hardmode again and not O for some time until it becomes unbearable.Remember guys usually need much longer than those 3 months to fully recover,I would say approximately 9 months.
 

Stiffy999

Member
This sounds awful brother.Maybe you should try to go hardmode again and not O for some time until it becomes unbearable.Remember guys usually need much longer than those 3 months to fully recover,I would say approximately 9 months.
Yeah it came to my mind.I'm 4 days hardmode now and we will see, thank you for sharing your opinion bro !
 

Stiffy999

Member
does your errection got strong can u penetrate now?
It is much stronger than it used to be.I can say that after month 5 reboot(last 3 months were hard mode) I started noticing it getting better and slowly overcoming flatline.I'm able to penetrate but sometimes anxiety becomes stronger than my dick and i go limp inside.I planned on going hard mode but I orgasmed today again...I go hard mode from now on,regarding sex only karezza!
 

Cp6uH

Member
It is much stronger than it used to be.I can say that after month 5 reboot(last 3 months were hard mode) I started noticing it getting better and slowly overcoming flatline.I'm able to penetrate but sometimes anxiety becomes stronger than my dick and i go limp inside.I planned on going hard mode but I orgasmed today again...I go hard mode from now on,regarding sex only karezza!
That's nice to hear,good progress man! If I may ask you do you use condom ?
 

Stiffy999

Member
That's nice to hear,good progress man! If I may ask you do you use condom ?
ye true, condom or no condom was day and night to me when I suffered from desensitized penis
Well regarding condoms,I tried at first with them,but for me it is so much better without them.I think that's because my penis is desensitized still from my and gfs hand...I need more time to get used to them and PIV sex.
 

Cp6uH

Member
Well regarding condoms,I tried at first with them,but for me it is so much better without them.I think that's because my penis is desensitized still from my and gfs hand...I need more time to get used to them and PIV sex.
So you don't lose erection when putting the condom on ?
 
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