Porn free for more than 1 year

Hello. I started becoming interested the idea of no-fap around summer last year. I had noticed softer erections for some weeks and was becoming worried and I started googling about the problem. Then I became motivated more to search for a girlfriend or some fun and managed to come on a date where I slept with a woman, just a normal woman :D

I could not get erection and was devasted. Mind you this was my first sex ever, and I was 31 years old at that time. Since then I have been on several dates and slept with women. Last night I was in the city and a great woman liked me, and I got her number, it's amazing how different I am than one year ago !! I also have a potential girlfriend waiting, and she is really sweet and good looking. One year ago I thought I was too ugly to ever get a girlfriend ! The journey has been tough, and I started working out and using dating sites before I started no-fap, but I got no succes because of my porn and masturbation habits. Now I get much more succes. I am more social and I really search for a partner. I am much more open, as if porn made me a recluse or more inward by nature.

I had ED for my first six months, and I slept with a woman about 6 times. Then about january and february this year I could get erections I had some pretty good sex, not awesome, but I suceeded. After this I started masturbating too much again and the problem returned, even though I still did not watch porn. I have had some great erections after returning to masturbating less again, and sometimes there are no problems at all. However, my erections are still soft generally, and I would probably not easily get erection with a woman atm. So I am not cured.

I excercise and drink a lot of vegetable juice. The vegetables seem to really help. And adding Spinach should boost ones libido. My skills at getting women are much better, I am more attractive and self confident. My erections are mediocre still. But I continue. It's a long journey but it feels right to me. Once I get a girlfriend and not just one night stands it should be easier for me to know where I am at.

I will tell if I get cured in here. I have kicked my porn habit for good, but I am still addicted to masturbation. Once I get this habit more under control, I think I will recover and then I am ready to get a girlfriend :)
 
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