keep moving forward
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I am a few days away from completing 30 days without porn after being a regular user for years. While there has been a lot more lows than highs, I came to a realization, porn is a serious relationship killer. I was with my ex gf for nearly 7 years and during the last year of the relationship I found myself watching more and more porn and connecting less with my partner. I thought sex was boring with my gf, I felt no connection, and I would rather watch some internet stuff to get off. This led to infidelity on her end and leaving me for someone else. It took me all of 9 months of separation to finally come to the realization as to why my partner would cheat on me, I didn't come to this realization until I stopped watching porn. While I don't think that stopping the use of porn will solve everything, I hope that this reboot will positively impact my mental health and life. Keep moving forward.
