Is this a common sign of addiction? Is the addict in me torturing me? Let me explain. I am 51 days into a reboot as of now.
Before I started rebooting, I was watching pornography and masturbating more or less every day. My tastes were escalating quite alarmingly; sometimes I was wondering if I was turning bisexual. Men were starting to arouse me similar to women. I never reached the likes of shemale porn, but still watched some pretty bad stuff. I could usually only achieve an erection watching hardcore pornography and it was a struggle to maintain. Multiple tabs open at once to keep myself entertained as best I could. Browsing between videos I would often lose my erection and had to masturbate to bring it back. Even with hardcore pornography my erection would sometimes just disappear. Hell, sometimes I even masturbated when I wasn't aroused AT ALL; I'd look at sexual imagery, and think "might as well do it" and really struggle to maintain erection and orgasm. I was PMOing in some cases because it was just routine, I didn't necessarily want to. I was socially anxious and had little confidence in myself. I enjoyed seeing people humiliated and put down just for a cheap, dirty and disgusting thrill.
I couldn't paint a more clear picture of porn addiction, right? So why is there this voice in my head telling me I wasn't addicted at all and I am just torturing myself for no reason? I've felt awful withdrawals so far but things are picking up. My mind is telling me these aren't withdrawals, but instead I'm just cracking up and slowly going insane. I keep telling myself I am an addict in withdrawal and I will not listen or relapse whatever happens, but it's intense when your own brain acts against you!
So my question is: is addiction denial a common symptom? And how can I convince myself this is a necessary process and that it is the only way forward for me?
Before I started rebooting, I was watching pornography and masturbating more or less every day. My tastes were escalating quite alarmingly; sometimes I was wondering if I was turning bisexual. Men were starting to arouse me similar to women. I never reached the likes of shemale porn, but still watched some pretty bad stuff. I could usually only achieve an erection watching hardcore pornography and it was a struggle to maintain. Multiple tabs open at once to keep myself entertained as best I could. Browsing between videos I would often lose my erection and had to masturbate to bring it back. Even with hardcore pornography my erection would sometimes just disappear. Hell, sometimes I even masturbated when I wasn't aroused AT ALL; I'd look at sexual imagery, and think "might as well do it" and really struggle to maintain erection and orgasm. I was PMOing in some cases because it was just routine, I didn't necessarily want to. I was socially anxious and had little confidence in myself. I enjoyed seeing people humiliated and put down just for a cheap, dirty and disgusting thrill.
I couldn't paint a more clear picture of porn addiction, right? So why is there this voice in my head telling me I wasn't addicted at all and I am just torturing myself for no reason? I've felt awful withdrawals so far but things are picking up. My mind is telling me these aren't withdrawals, but instead I'm just cracking up and slowly going insane. I keep telling myself I am an addict in withdrawal and I will not listen or relapse whatever happens, but it's intense when your own brain acts against you!
So my question is: is addiction denial a common symptom? And how can I convince myself this is a necessary process and that it is the only way forward for me?