3 weeks into my journey... Started dating a girl a week ago

[msp0000]

Hi guys,

I am 3 weeks into my journey, however I relapsed after 2 weeks, so my new streak with no porn or masturbation is 7 days currently. Last Friday I went on a date with a girl that I really had a connection with and she seemed to like me too. We are going out again this week, and I couldn't be happier. However, I am worried about when things get sexual that I will not have the ability to get an erection. Has anybody else been in a similar scenario?

I'm thinking my plan is just to let her bring up anything sex related, and if I can't get hard then I will just try to please her with my mouth or hands. Afterwards I can tell her the predicament that I'm in with PIED. I am aware that this could end with her not being interested anymore, but it is what it is.

 

[Chrisaaa7]

Hi guys,

I am 3 weeks into my journey, however I relapsed after 2 weeks, so my new streak with no porn or masturbation is 7 days currently. Last Friday I went on a date with a girl that I really had a connection with and she seemed to like me too. We are going out again this week, and I couldn't be happier. However, I am worried about when things get sexual that I will not have the ability to get an erection. Has anybody else been in a similar scenario?

I'm thinking my plan is just to let her bring up anything sex related, and if I can't get hard then I will just try to please her with my mouth or hands. Afterwards I can tell her the predicament that I'm in with PIED. I am aware that this could end with her not being interested anymore, but it is what it is.

Yeah bro I think that works , try rewiring and see how it goes. I would let her know before tbh to put less pressure on urself . Just avoid seating or like that, just do sexual stuff in person. Good luck bro.

 

[Ryan.]

So is sexual stuff in person okay? I find myself quite lucky to be able to get hard around him I guess but maintaining erections becomes difficult in certain situations. I guess as long as im not thinking or engaging in any activity related to porn its okay?

 

[Fappy]

its up to you, but it might be a good idea to wait until youre a little further along in your reboot to attempt anything like that. i speak from experience, ive tried many a time to force it, only for it to end in crushing embarrassment when im trying to cram my floppy, limp pathetic cock into someone. trust me, its a baaaaad feeling. the fact that you have doubts about it might suggest you arent ready. give it a few more weeks or a month?