Help on admitting your addition to loved one

[pornfreeodyssey]

How do I go about admitting my porn addition to a loved one?
Do I go through and list every scenario that occurred?

I don't want to lose them but I don't want to abuse them either by withholding information.

So to you all, how would yall approach this?

 

[Chrisaaa7]

How do I go about admitting my porn addition to a loved one?
Do I go through and list every scenario that occurred?

I don't want to lose them but I don't want to abuse them either by withholding information.

So to you all, how would yall approach this?

Hey man, good question. When I told my gf it made it much easier and it changed from just me handling the problem to us doing it together, and I highly encourage telling your partner because it takes a lot of pressure off. My advice is go ahead and say eveything. I don’t mean like tell her a detailed description about what kind a porn you watched. I mean go ahead and tell her that you had a porn problem, it messes with your arousal system, and you figured out it was the problem and you’re currently working on fixing it to make your relationship stronger. I’m not sure how close you guys are or how long you’ve been together but if you feel comfortable with them then this should be easy and this shouldn’t be something they leave you for. Be open and honest and don’t sugar coat it and leave her thinking something else, you want to be as honest as possible and just tell her enough information that she truly understands what’s happening, think about what/how you want to say it before doing it