First date

[BigM]

This past weeks, I met a girl and she's been charming. The lady asked me out next Friday and I couldn't say no! The big question is I'll be three weeks in my reboot (hard mode) I have tried rebooting but relapsed several times. I'm confused if it's okay to expect anything, I get random erections,not the satisfying kind of boners but I can manage a penetration with them. What if she tries any sexual stuff? What should I do incase anxiety kicks in? I'm lost in my thoughts.

 

[Stiffy999]

This past weeks, I met a girl and she's been charming. The lady asked me out next Friday and I couldn't say no! The big question is I'll be three weeks in my reboot (hard mode) I have tried rebooting but relapsed several times. I'm confused if it's okay to expect anything, I get random erections,not the satisfying kind of boners but I can manage a penetration with them. What if she tries any sexual stuff? What should I do incase anxiety kicks in? I'm lost in my thoughts.

Well bro,you need to evaluate situation-like the way you met her,her behaviour to know exactly what she wants from you.However most women won't go for anything sexual on the first date so you shouldn't worry about that.Of course,you need to think about what you want a relationship or just a one or two night stand

 

[Fappy]

you could just refuse her? politely of course.
the fact that youre apprehensive about it might be a sign that your not ready to attempt it.
she might very well not want to do anything sexual since its a first date, that is if shes a clean, self respecting woman. if she does go for that type of thing its likely she isnt the type to take too kindly to a case of the floppy cocks.
anyway try to read her body language first before anything else

 

[BigM]

you could just refuse her? politely of course.
the fact that youre apprehensive about it might be a sign that your not ready to attempt it.
she might very well not want to do anything sexual since its a first date, that is if shes a clean, self respecting woman. if she does go for that type of thing its likely she isnt the type to take too kindly to a case of the floppy cocks.
anyway try to read her body language first before anything else

I'm specifically worried about my PIED, as much as she might not demand for sex, the latter will eventually be introduced after two or three dates. I am afraid that when the time comes I might not be ready (well... full recovery, confidence and stuff) for sex. Is it okay to tell her about my sexual dysfunction on the first date?

 

[BigDog43]

I was just browsing the vocab section of this site and did not realize this was true. It said if you can get hard by your own hand, it's not PIED, it's performance anxiety. I never really thought about it that way but it makes sense. My advice is going to be a lot harder to do than it is for me to type, but just enjoy it man. Don't worry yourself about it, and let whatever is going to happen play out. Maybe you don't push it and just getting to know her a little helps you build that bond and confidence. If the worst does happen, you could tell her the deal. If you really want a relationship with her, being honest out of the gate could be a great thing and she might enjoy trying to help you overcome it and take it as a challenge.

 

[BigM]

Well bro,you need to evaluate situation-like the way you met her,her behaviour to know exactly what she wants from you.However most women won't go for anything sexual on the first date so you shouldn't worry about that.Of course,you need to think about what you want a relationship or just a one or two night stan

 

[Fappy]

I'm specifically worried about my PIED, as much as she might not demand for sex, the latter will eventually be introduced after two or three dates. I am afraid that when the time comes I might not be ready (well... full recovery, confidence and stuff) for sex. Is it okay to tell her about my sexual dysfunction on the first date?

hmmmmm i wouldnt tell her on the first date. if she asks why what will you say? that youre a porn addicted creep? dont think thats a real turn on... you could make an excuse something like youre taking medication for something that interferes with your penis? or youve sustained an injury down there and the doctors reccommend that you abstain from usisng it for a while. something like that, sounds better than the actual reason, for now at least.