Hi all, guess I need to join after getting hit like a brick now.
Been doing the PMO stuff for as long as I know, that's 15-20 years with maybe a couple weeks without it.
Married and kid, partner isn't the wildest so we sometimes have sex for some days a week, sometimes weeks without. I've been afraid all these times to get PIED and when it comes up in my head it happens sometimes. Wifey doesn't care because when I'm relaxed and in the mood everything works ok.
Problem is it's in my head and it's difficult to stay hard for some time outside or when it's not me initiating.
And here the story becomes worse.
I tried to solve this problem with getting into another relationship. I know, what was I thinking..I know..!? Ofcourse, the fear starts here too. Some stuff happened, but enough negative feelings to give me the idea that I'm stuck in a negative spiral. So need to stop this behaviour NOW!
Been doing the PMO stuff for as long as I know, that's 15-20 years with maybe a couple weeks without it.
Married and kid, partner isn't the wildest so we sometimes have sex for some days a week, sometimes weeks without. I've been afraid all these times to get PIED and when it comes up in my head it happens sometimes. Wifey doesn't care because when I'm relaxed and in the mood everything works ok.
Problem is it's in my head and it's difficult to stay hard for some time outside or when it's not me initiating.
And here the story becomes worse.
I tried to solve this problem with getting into another relationship. I know, what was I thinking..I know..!? Ofcourse, the fear starts here too. Some stuff happened, but enough negative feelings to give me the idea that I'm stuck in a negative spiral. So need to stop this behaviour NOW!
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