I started masturbating at the age of 15. At first it was more of real people like my female teachers then it slowly went to images. I have mostly used images and a little porn for 7 years now. In the first 3 and a half years I could quit for a month or two then give in but I became really addicted and did it like 5 times a week. I get 60% erect with a girl but when she's given in it would droop and the erection would disappear. I've only penetrated using viagra but it wasn't hard enough. I have lost all my morning wood and my genitals have shrunk a lot. I don't really know why but am starting this to see how it goes. Am hopeful.
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forestwater
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Good luck on your reboot!
There's some wording here that worries me, however. You talk about girls "giving in" to sex, as if you were pressuring them into doing something they initially didn't want to do. If someone has to be pressured or coerced into it, that isn't sex, it's rape.
I hope I'm simply misunderstanding your wording, but if not, I would seriously advise you to take a long, hard look at the way you treat women. Porn encourages you to see women as sex objects, but that is a harmful lie. If you want to move away from porn and start having meaningful sexual connection, you can't do that without respecting the other person as a human being with feelings and agency.
There's some wording here that worries me, however. You talk about girls "giving in" to sex, as if you were pressuring them into doing something they initially didn't want to do. If someone has to be pressured or coerced into it, that isn't sex, it's rape.
I hope I'm simply misunderstanding your wording, but if not, I would seriously advise you to take a long, hard look at the way you treat women. Porn encourages you to see women as sex objects, but that is a harmful lie. If you want to move away from porn and start having meaningful sexual connection, you can't do that without respecting the other person as a human being with feelings and agency.
Fappy
Respected Member
Your rapey wording aside, the only way to repair yourself (and your willy), is to do a reboot. Thats the only way. The stiffy-pills are only a bandaid solution at best. If you want to fix your life and get your sexual functioning back to something resembling normal then you have got to do a reboot.
Hey guys,I don't think that he meant she's given in in that rapey way hahahah,he probably wanted to say like when he put it inside her or something similar...
Starting the reboot is the best choice you can make,but also this seems like the case of performance anxiety.Have you had similar failed sex attempts in the past ?
Am sorry for my wording, am sure you what I mean
Only two serious cases, i have also started lifting weights and it is giving me a better satisfaction than Masturbation
Well then,do you have some negative thoughts like "what if I fail again?" or "what if I can't get it up?" or "Why it won't get up?" or "why is it only 60% I can't penetrate?" or any similar thought that nobody with healthy sex life ever thinks when it's about to get hot?
If your answer is yes then you need to change your approach towards sex and remove focus from yourself,your pleasure and your penis and instead focus on the beauty of your partner and her pleasure and once you completely satisfy your partner multiple times anxiety will go away.Also don't think that sex is only penetrating inside a woman,you can have sex many other ways even with flaccid penis and still it can be the best sex she has ever had.
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