I don't get it?

datkid93

Active Member
So as I continue with my reboot I've been noticing that at times I can fanatsize sex with a girl and get a viagra like boner that can take a few minutests to go down. Why is it that I cant consistently do this like once it goes down its not as easy to get back up again. Then there are days I cant even do it. Like you'd think that once u can start making that connection it would come consistently.
 
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OSS

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Because rebooting isn't linear and your brain is wired for novelty.

Fantasizing generally isn't new or exciting, especially right after one "session". It would be like watching a P clip not having and orgasm and then watching it again, it's not novel, new or exciting and probably won't keep or get your dick hard again. It's old and boring and now you need new shock and surprise to keep your dopamine flowing.

Besides that, rebooting in general isn't linear you'll have good and bad days/weeks/months. There's a lot of factors outside of rebooting also.
 

datkid93

Active Member
Gotcha I guess that makes sense. Also I was wondering if it would be good to continue fantasizing about sex with a girl given that that's my end goal. These fantasies dotn represent the porn I'm trying to uncondition myself from so I can't see really how it would be bad.
 

Promise

Well-Known Member
I find when fantasizing I get carried away and it often makes it more difficult to resist a relapse.  Fantasy just doesn't seem productive during a reboot imo.
 
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