I have been trying to kick PMO for many years, sometimes more successfully than others. So this will be a journal from me. My gf is very against porn and we did discuss my problem a few years ago, she thinks I haven't looked at porn since I guess, but that's not true. Stress is a trigger for me, and I feel a lot of guilt because she doesn't know I've looked at porn recently. I thought I could just deal with it and it would be fine. I don't want to tell her as she would he crushed and the shame on me would be too great. I don't want to hurt her, but I feel somewhat incongruent as I'm not the person she thinks I am. I don't know how to deal with this aspect. I'm going to call this day 1 although it was a few days since I've looked at porn.