Help me

[Texaslonely]

The penis cannot get an erection with manual stimulation..! It hits 60% to 80% with porn how long does it take to cure my Pied..! I've had great sex with many partners before..!After breaking up with my girlfriend at age 29 I started PMO every day and I discovered pied when I was 30..I don't know what happened. happened to me and continue pmo to date..I am 34 years old now..! i only know the problem related to my brain 6 months ago...! Give me some advice and am I likely to recover..!
I have a girlfriend now..My Pied is pretty serious...! and my girlfriend wants us to get married in 12 months...! We are far apart..! I'm in Texas and she's in Florida..! Should I stay on hard mode for 1 year and marry her?..? My Pied could be better after 1 year in hard mode...! Or should I refuse this marriage..! I'm afraid I won't heal and torment her for the rest of my life...! We worship God so she and I can only have sex after marriage..and she doesn't know I have Pied..! What can I do..! give me your opinion..! Thank you. Sorry English is not my mother tongue

 

[PowerCycling]

I'd recommend taking a deep breath, slowing down, and taking stock of the situation. Don't rush into anything.

I'd start by watching Gary Wilson's talk, and reading his book:

Amazon.com: Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction eBook : Wilson, Gary: Kindle Store

Amazon.com: Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction eBook : Wilson, Gary: Kindle Store

www.amazon.com

Then read around this forum for similar stories. Since you last had successful sex a few years ago, there's hope it may not take too long for you to make a full recovery. Since you're long-distance and celibate anyways, going hard-mode seems like a reasonable idea to me.

 

[Texaslonely]

Yesterday I thought I couldn't recover...! I cried like a baby..!I was thinking about suicide..! But I love my parents..What would they be like without me..! I don't want to hurt them..! I think of the people I love..! I try to save my life and I can't run away like a coward when it's my fault..! I try to figure out all the problems that have caused my brain..! I try to solve them..! But language limitation got in my way..! I can't understand English from videos of successful people..! I can only translate from the language switch toolbar..! I wish I could hear English..! If I were good at English, maybe 4 years ago I would have found this forum earlier..! For 4 years I was Pied I thought maybe it was my body so I still pmo every day and bring me to this lousy...! there was a time when I thought it was because I was exhausted that I couldn't have sex..! I stopped PMO for about 9 months..! After that I had sex with a successful girl..But never had PIED..After she moved to another place..I went back to PM0 every day and it came back..! I started learning about what I had and I got to know 6 months ago...! And now I'm struggling with PIED and trying to figure out how to deal with it...Thank you for everything..!
Currently in my hometown VIETNAM there are many people who fall into PIED like me..They don't know anything about PIED..! I told them about what I know to try to help them and help myself...! In Vietnam PMO in the teens a lot and when they develop PIED they don't know what happens to them..! I tried to tell them all I know..! There are people who laugh and see it as a joke..! Now I have shared what I know to one person who got out of PIED by advising them to stop PMO luckily after 3 months and they are PIED free and having successful sex..! That person was only a very mild case and recovered..He is only 17 years old..!

 

[Chuckles]

800-273-8255
I will try to write simply to make it easier to translate.
Please don't kill yourself! That phone number is the national suicide prevention hotline. They will talk to you if you are thinking of killing yourself.
Get the help you need. Talk to a friend or a therapist. Keep asking us for help on this forum, but also get help from a therapist if you can. There may be some that speak your language. You can find some online. Try www.betterhelp.com they should be able to find someone. If you can't find someone there don't give up!
For your PIED: stop, breathe, tell yourself that you will be okay. You have a long time until you have to have sex with this woman. You have recovered before and you can do it again. Make a plan to stop using porn. Find out what will make it difficult to stick to that plan, and get rid of those things. Keep posting here. Other members are very supportive.
And please keep checking in here so we know you are okay.

 

[Chuckles]

Also, find things to replace PMO. Exercise, meditate, go new places, meet new people, even just sitting down somewhere without internet for a few minutes.
You can only do this 1 day at a time