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[APC]

Hi Folks,

My first post on here and have been looking for answers for a while or at least some sort of explanation to explain what's going on in my head.
Have watched porn all my life and it's always been there for me as a safe zone for pleasure when I needed it but lately have been single for a couple of years and started a new relationship recently.
Have had ED issues ...and it's driving me crazy as she is gorgeous but my penis feels disconnected with my mind and desires. It's very frustrating and luckily she is very understanding. The other really strange thing is that I get really strong erections all night ... so much so that it's effecting my sleep pattern..... has anyone else experienced this ? It all feels totally out of sync and when I want an erection I can't..
I have decided to reboot as I can't continue ignoring this... the doc said it is probably a phychological issue and tablets would not help. When I saw your site and read all the information about it this has given me hope. I just want it back to normal so am trying the reboot, would welcome your feedback and if anyone has felt anything similar?
It's so tough to talk about but surely lots of men suffer in silence ??
Many thanks All

 

[Fappy]

Hi! Welcome to the site!
It’s a bitter pill to swallow but your brain has been fucked by porn, to the extent that it’s broken your penis. Scary isn’t it.
The exact same thing that you’re experiencing happened to me as well, as I’m sure it’s happened to most of the members on this site.
But the good news is that now you’ve found the cure! Your doctor is right, ED pills won’t help what’s wrong with you. The only way to ensure your full recovery is to reboot and rewire your brain. It really does work so don’t question it’s effectiveness, it takes some work from you however.
Stop all porn and porn substitutes immediately. You will suffer through some pretty nasty withdrawal symptoms but it won’t last long and the rewards will be absolutely worth it.
Stick to your reboot plan and get your life back.

 

[APC]

Hi! Welcome to the site!
It’s a bitter pill to swallow but your brain has been fucked by porn, to the extent that it’s broken your penis. Scary isn’t it.
The exact same thing that you’re experiencing happened to me as well, as I’m sure it’s happened to most of the members on this site.
But the good news is that now you’ve found the cure! Your doctor is right, ED pills won’t help what’s wrong with you. The only way to ensure your full recovery is to reboot and rewire your brain. It really does work so don’t question it’s effectiveness, it takes some work from you however.
Stop all porn and porn substitutes immediately. You will suffer through some pretty nasty withdrawal symptoms but it won’t last long and the rewards will be absolutely worth it.
Stick to your reboot plan and get your life back.

Thanks for taking the time to reply and your words are really encouraging and I'm feeling really positive about nailing this reboot. Its great that this site exists otherwise knowledge and support is hard to find. I've watched a few of Gabes YouTube videos, what an amazing and inspirational guy he is

 

[Tryinghere]

Welcome. You’ve come to the right spot. First off, you’ll find that @Fappy knows what he’s talking about. He’s proven to be a huge help to me during my reboot.

you absolutely have suffered addiction related brain changes from porn. You’re wise to start your reboot. I can tell you that I was unable to get an erection with a woman 6 months ago. Now, I can have sex with my wife. That’s not to say I’m “healed” or “cured”, but definitely better.

Step 1 - stop watching porn
Step 2 - that’s about it.

obviously it’s more complex. But that’s the basics of the entire thing.
If I can be of any help at all. Don’t hesitate to ask. Anything I can do.

 

[Um novo homem]

Oi pessoal,

Meu primeiro post aqui e há algum tempo venho procurando respostas ou pelo menos algum tipo de explicação para explicar o que se passa na minha cabeça.
Assisti pornografia toda a minha vida e sempre esteve lá para mim como uma zona segura para o prazer quando eu precisava, mas ultimamente estou solteiro há alguns anos e comecei um novo relacionamento recentemente.
Tive problemas de disfunção erétil ... e isso está me deixando louco porque ela é linda, mas meu pênis parece desconectado com minha mente e desejos. É muito frustrante e felizmente ela é muito compreensiva. A outra coisa realmente estranha é que eu tenho ereções muito fortes a noite toda... tanto que está afetando meu padrão de sono... alguém já experimentou isso? Tudo parece totalmente fora de sincronia e quando quero uma ereção não consigo.
Decidi reiniciar, pois não posso continuar ignorando isso ... o médico disse que provavelmente é um problema psicológico e os tablets não ajudariam. Quando vi seu site e li todas as informações sobre ele, isso me deu esperança. Eu só quero que volte ao normal, então estou tentando a reinicialização, gostaria de receber seu feedback e se alguém sentiu algo semelhante?
É tão difícil falar, mas com certeza muitos homens sofrem em silêncio ??
Muito obrigado a todos

Boa noite amigo, a mesma coisa comigo eu quando estou com uma mulher demora a ereção acontecer e quando acontece não fica mais duro como ficava antes, e as vezes nem fica duro, mas tenho ereções involuntárias a noite ou durante o dia principalmente quando quero urinar, espero sair dessa pois é muito frustante a mulher querer prazer vc também querer mas o cérebro não ajudar...

 

[Fappy]

Welcome. You’ve come to the right spot. First off, you’ll find that @Fappy knows what he’s talking about. He’s proven to be a huge help to me during my reboot.

you absolutely have suffered addiction related brain changes from porn. You’re wise to start your reboot. I can tell you that I was unable to get an erection with a woman 6 months ago. Now, I can have sex with my wife. That’s not to say I’m “healed” or “cured”, but definitely better.

Step 1 - stop watching porn
Step 2 - that’s about it.

obviously it’s more complex. But that’s the basics of the entire thing.
If I can be of any help at all. Don’t hesitate to ask. Anything I can do.

Yep, that’s about it. Step 1 is all you need. The brain will repair itself naturally over time, no need to force anything for fuck around with medication. Just let the process take it’s course and you’ll be alright.
Another thing I might add is, expect to relapse. Maybe even relapse a lot. It’s all part of the process and with every relapse it’s a valuable chance to identify exactly what lead to the relapse in the first place. What was the trigger? How could I have reacted differently? How do I feel after relapsing? In this way you can ensure a relapse under similar circumstances doesn’t happen again.
There may be a steep learning curve, but my god the payoffs are worth it.