BlueDream
Member
Well here we go, this isn’t my first rodeo here. I've been using PMO for over 24 years now. Been a member for 6 years and I’ve know about PIED some years before that when I first found YBOP. First time posting here I think.
This wont be pretty or perfect, however it needs to be documented for myself and maybe others will find something positive out of it.
My porn journey started when I was probably 8 or 9. A neighborhood friends older brother showed us his playboy collection in their tree house. I can still remember how weird the 80’s breast implants looked for the first time. Mind blowing stimulation for a child.
I would find myself being curious about nude images for the next few years. I would try and watch something on TV every now and then but my Mom was pretty strict on content so that wasn’t the easiest. I remember in 1996, 11 years old, we got our first computer that had dial up internet and I searched for the playboy website. That feeling of just searching for it was amazing, pure bliss and my heart was pounding knowing that I was doing something I wasn’t supposed to. I don’t know how I wasn’t caught for that, maybe it wasn’t as easy to trace back then.
When I was 14 I had my first experience with PMO. It was on a weekend when my mom was busy, parents were separated by now, and I was completely unsupervised. I found soft core shows on HBO or Cinemax and was deeply engaged in the overall experience I was in. I can remember how I was amazed in what that felt like and how good it made me feel.
I would spend the next year or so experimenting more and more with digital sexual stimulus, hardcore porn was quickly introduced once I was actively using. I remember that hardcore was more still images at this time and not videos per se.
By the time I was a freshman in high school High speed internet was available and hardcore videos became the main attraction. I would spend many hours a week on PMO and not very much else. Still have never experienced sex, I had one of encounter with Oral sex however I wasn’t able to get an erection. I was in my car in a parking lot and I thought I was just so nervous I couldn’t get it up. Reflecting on it now that was my very first time I ever experienced PIED. I even thought that I should be using PMO before dates so that I could be ready for sex. However I was only digging myself deeper into the problem. I found myself using PMO even more than before to cope with the sadness of ending of that relationship...
This wont be pretty or perfect, however it needs to be documented for myself and maybe others will find something positive out of it.
My porn journey started when I was probably 8 or 9. A neighborhood friends older brother showed us his playboy collection in their tree house. I can still remember how weird the 80’s breast implants looked for the first time. Mind blowing stimulation for a child.
I would find myself being curious about nude images for the next few years. I would try and watch something on TV every now and then but my Mom was pretty strict on content so that wasn’t the easiest. I remember in 1996, 11 years old, we got our first computer that had dial up internet and I searched for the playboy website. That feeling of just searching for it was amazing, pure bliss and my heart was pounding knowing that I was doing something I wasn’t supposed to. I don’t know how I wasn’t caught for that, maybe it wasn’t as easy to trace back then.
When I was 14 I had my first experience with PMO. It was on a weekend when my mom was busy, parents were separated by now, and I was completely unsupervised. I found soft core shows on HBO or Cinemax and was deeply engaged in the overall experience I was in. I can remember how I was amazed in what that felt like and how good it made me feel.
I would spend the next year or so experimenting more and more with digital sexual stimulus, hardcore porn was quickly introduced once I was actively using. I remember that hardcore was more still images at this time and not videos per se.
By the time I was a freshman in high school High speed internet was available and hardcore videos became the main attraction. I would spend many hours a week on PMO and not very much else. Still have never experienced sex, I had one of encounter with Oral sex however I wasn’t able to get an erection. I was in my car in a parking lot and I thought I was just so nervous I couldn’t get it up. Reflecting on it now that was my very first time I ever experienced PIED. I even thought that I should be using PMO before dates so that I could be ready for sex. However I was only digging myself deeper into the problem. I found myself using PMO even more than before to cope with the sadness of ending of that relationship...