therealthing
Member
Is watching P an act of infidelity? Is M’ing on its own? Is M’ing to P?
My personal answers: yes, no, yes. In that order. I’m trying to wrap my head around it. For years I’ve just tried to tell myself that it’s “normal” for guys to regularly watch it. These threads are giving me hope that not everyone sees it as normal and acceptable.
I’m tired of pretending it’s okay just so someone will love/like me. I shouldn’t have to bend what I consider acceptable in a relationship (at a moral level) just because I don’t want to lose someone.
I know I am disgusted by habitual porn use. But is it cheating? TIA. So grateful to have found this site.
My personal answers: yes, no, yes. In that order. I’m trying to wrap my head around it. For years I’ve just tried to tell myself that it’s “normal” for guys to regularly watch it. These threads are giving me hope that not everyone sees it as normal and acceptable.
I’m tired of pretending it’s okay just so someone will love/like me. I shouldn’t have to bend what I consider acceptable in a relationship (at a moral level) just because I don’t want to lose someone.
I know I am disgusted by habitual porn use. But is it cheating? TIA. So grateful to have found this site.