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Porn is something I was always severly grossed out by because when I was just a little girl I caught my father watching porn, let's just say more than once. It completely ruined my perspective and view on women and especially men, and as I got older I became repulsed by sex in general. For 2 years I even thought I was asexual. When i was a teenager I always felt guilty after I masturbated. It took me quite some time to finally get over my trauma around it and be completely okay with my sexuality. Because of all that I had my first boyfriend when i was 20 years old. I was in love with him since I was 17. After a couple of months we tried having sex but he couldn't stay hard. I just thought "Well we had some drinks, so maybe that was it". A month later he opened up about his porn addiction. I was completely shocked and utterly heartbroken. I knew that guys watch porn and unforunately while they are in relathionships too, but I had never pictured him doing that. I thought he was different. He thought I was gonna dump him and my initial thought was that too, but I couldn't do it because I was that in love with him. I have never been so hurt in my entire life. I was caught in the same devastating circle in which I hated our society for being so sexualised and pornified. It destroyed me completely. I felt insecure as ever and started comparing myself to those women and asked myself " What do they have that I don't?"....Nonetheless I stayed with him and helped him get over it. Everything worked out for him in the end. He changed a lot and we became really close, but this kind of stuff is something that scarres you for life. I am still so heartbroken. How can i trust him that he won't watch it again. Porn ruins relathionships as well as people. I don't know if I will ever get over this. I want to ask other women (and men) who have been in my situation-
How do I get over this feeling and can i ever?
How do I get over this feeling and can i ever?