College Athlete Attempt to Reboot

[roku123]

THANK YOU GABE DEEM

 

[Gabe Deem]

@ roku123

First off welcome to the Nation!

For almost 4 weeks I did not watch porn or jack off at all. After this period I tried masturbating again, this time without porn. Hoolllyyyy shit. My dick had never felt like that before. It got rock hard so easily and stayed that way for a few minutes.

So you already have experienced the difference giving up PMO can have on you. You can do it again my man. I always tell this to guys, but a key in rebooting is realizing that giving up porn is not about missing out on pleasure, but a chance to finally be able to feel it. A chance to finally be able to connect intimately, to function normally. Porn will take from you the one thing it promises to give, the ability to experience pleasure.

This was the worst period in my life. I am a young guy with a beautiful girlfriend, but I am not able to have sex with her because I can't get hard. I felt like a pussy, like I wasn't a man and I couldn't do a simple thing that all my friends were always sharing stories about. I was depressed.

Just want to say I've been in the same situation and felt the pain... you're not alone here. It is a dark and painful time indeed, mix in the brain changes going on and the desensitization/withdrawal symptoms (if you have any) and you have yourself a pretty ugly time period that, in the end, will make you stronger on the other side.

I should probably jack off a couple times before I see my girlfriend after that otherwise I could be susceptible to a 2 second nut once I get up in there. But even that would be better than her having to look at my flimsy dick while she's naked on top of me, like "uhhhh, you straight or nah?"

My two cents: I suggest staying away from that... if you bust and are fully recovered you will be able to have another round after a brief break, and you can be honest with her about how it's been a while, and tell her she drives you crazy how beautiful she is, or whatever else is in your heart and on your mind. You are right in that it is better to get it up and bust, than to not get it up at all... don't worry about that. 

Hope you find all the information and encouragement here you need. Hope the best for you! Much Love