narfolee
Member
Hey guys,
Really hoping to hear some success stories here. I'm 20 years old and am finally accepting that I have a moderately mild form of Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. I went through a dark time from ages 15-18 where I watched porn pretty much every day.
When I realized it was affecting my sex life, I tried to stop but I still haven't been able to quit for good.
I finally found a girl I really like, and while the first few weeks were amazing and I had no trouble with full erections and fast orgasms, now it seems I'm losing my boner as frequently as I'm keeping it!
Very embarrassing, very frustrating - and worst of all, the girl I like so much thinks its her! Even though it hasn't happened as frequently with other girls, I know this is MY MIND that is causing the problem and not her.
I have created false expectations for what sex should be... thinking I deserve to have someone cater to my needs like I've watched on a screen for years.
I've explained to gf that its me, and that if she's patient I will get over it. This is my last ditch effort to get back to my normal, health, self.
I HAVE QUESTIONS:
I sleep with her 3 nights a week. Should I masturbate at all when Im away from her and get horny? Quitting porn is a given. Masturbating to other fantasies and other girls is obviously not good for me... but should I just stop all masturbation and just have sexual stimulation when she gives it to me???
Anyone else try to reboot, with a girlfriend?
Stopping sex with her is not an option. The show must go on.
Really hoping to hear some success stories here. I'm 20 years old and am finally accepting that I have a moderately mild form of Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. I went through a dark time from ages 15-18 where I watched porn pretty much every day.
When I realized it was affecting my sex life, I tried to stop but I still haven't been able to quit for good.
I finally found a girl I really like, and while the first few weeks were amazing and I had no trouble with full erections and fast orgasms, now it seems I'm losing my boner as frequently as I'm keeping it!
Very embarrassing, very frustrating - and worst of all, the girl I like so much thinks its her! Even though it hasn't happened as frequently with other girls, I know this is MY MIND that is causing the problem and not her.
I have created false expectations for what sex should be... thinking I deserve to have someone cater to my needs like I've watched on a screen for years.
I've explained to gf that its me, and that if she's patient I will get over it. This is my last ditch effort to get back to my normal, health, self.
I HAVE QUESTIONS:
I sleep with her 3 nights a week. Should I masturbate at all when Im away from her and get horny? Quitting porn is a given. Masturbating to other fantasies and other girls is obviously not good for me... but should I just stop all masturbation and just have sexual stimulation when she gives it to me???
Anyone else try to reboot, with a girlfriend?
Stopping sex with her is not an option. The show must go on.