First time poster, long time reader. I had decided 3 months ago to give up porn for good. I made it to Day 95 and was feeling much better, more energy, sleeping better, less anxiety. Within the last month I decided to give sex another shot so being single I met 2 girls on craigslist for one time hookups. My sexual performance was much better and I though I was well on the road to recovery.
Last weekend a local porn producer saw my ad and offered me $500 to do a scene for his amateur website with an extremely attractive 18 year old girl. I'm 35 and have always had a fantasy of a younger girl like this. The website looks sleazy and amateurish but I deciced to get a subscription to check it out. The scenes are shot in HD and is some of the hottest I have ever seen on the net. I feel like I just got a huge dopamine release from it that I have never felt before. Lets just say this has triggered an extreme relapse that is the worst I have ever felt in my life. I have probably spent most of the last week masturbating to the website, fantasizing about starring in my own porn with this girl, and edging with a constant erection for most of the days. Its to the point now where my penis is really sore and I cant even get an erection now.
I am averaging about 3 hours of sleep the last week, have been sweating, having heart palpitations, and my whole body just aches from the constant stress Ive placed it under. I havent used for 24 hours now but the fantasies are still in my mind and Im afraid Im going to act on them and ruin my life by exposing myself on the internet for a cheap thrill. Has anyone else had a bad relpase like this and how did you get through it? Im trying to calm myself by meditating and doing other things but the fantasies are popping up in my head.
Please anyone who has felt like this please help, Im feeling really depressed about this. I am a decent looking guy with a career and family. I take care of myself and am in good shape, dont drink or use drugs but right now I feel like a heroin addict or something. I just dont know what to do until the thoughts fade away and my body calms back down. Thanks!
Last weekend a local porn producer saw my ad and offered me $500 to do a scene for his amateur website with an extremely attractive 18 year old girl. I'm 35 and have always had a fantasy of a younger girl like this. The website looks sleazy and amateurish but I deciced to get a subscription to check it out. The scenes are shot in HD and is some of the hottest I have ever seen on the net. I feel like I just got a huge dopamine release from it that I have never felt before. Lets just say this has triggered an extreme relapse that is the worst I have ever felt in my life. I have probably spent most of the last week masturbating to the website, fantasizing about starring in my own porn with this girl, and edging with a constant erection for most of the days. Its to the point now where my penis is really sore and I cant even get an erection now.
I am averaging about 3 hours of sleep the last week, have been sweating, having heart palpitations, and my whole body just aches from the constant stress Ive placed it under. I havent used for 24 hours now but the fantasies are still in my mind and Im afraid Im going to act on them and ruin my life by exposing myself on the internet for a cheap thrill. Has anyone else had a bad relpase like this and how did you get through it? Im trying to calm myself by meditating and doing other things but the fantasies are popping up in my head.
Please anyone who has felt like this please help, Im feeling really depressed about this. I am a decent looking guy with a career and family. I take care of myself and am in good shape, dont drink or use drugs but right now I feel like a heroin addict or something. I just dont know what to do until the thoughts fade away and my body calms back down. Thanks!