I need advice should i avoid having orgasm when im with my gf?

[jackomg]

Hello guys im really happy to join the Reboot process however i need advice, i started to quit porn since last time i wanted to have sex with my gf i couldn't keep my erection i lost it quickly without constat stimulation like masturbation with hand when i tried to put it in i didnt feel much and quickly lost my erection and noticed my anxiety and lack of arousal so i stopped porn and masturbation im 3 weeks in and pretty much noticed morning woods and few stronger random erections that until my gf came back from a trip we saw each other and she masturbate me and made me cum 3 times in a week afterwards i feel like i havent had strong random erections and i feel my sexual drive is still pretty much low so i want to know if i should avoid having orgasm for a while in order for my reboot to work faster.

Also having sexual fantasy with my gf doesnt help? should i avoid that too?

thanks a lot for the comments guys! stay strong