I was very hesitant to join the forum, for fear of judgement, but here I am. I am sure nobody wants the long version of my life, so I will try to keep it short.
To say the least I feel so alone and relentlessly worried at this porn reboot process. I'm really hoping and praying there are some people on here that could give me great insight, because I really need it.
I'm a man in my early fifties, married with 4 children.Porn and visual masturbation has ruined my sex life, and my thoughts on sex and women. Before there was any info on the rebooting process, I had been hospitalized at least a half a dozen times from the mania that this addiction has caused me.It was the intense shame of not being able to perform sexually, that it drove me to insanity.As time went by, and Youtube came full circle, I was able to search porn addiction.I was floored at how some of these young men ( who should be at their most veral point of their lives) were suffering from ED. I've tried over and over again to quit, and have gotten as far as 17 days. Along with the dopamine hit of ejacualtion to porn, I added alcohol( only wine) in the mix.About 3 weeks ago I had a breakdown, because my weight had soared out of control, along with the drinking.Subsequently, I lost 35 lbs in 2 weeks, and quit drinking all together, and now battling abstinence from drinking, porn and a food addiction. It is hell on this earth. I almost felt better and more relaxed with being addicted.Now, I can't sleep, my urinating has become a problem, and I am so tense and my head is spinning out of control.I was so concerned about my health and what I had done, I went and got a physical.My chief concern was my prostate. My doctor did a PSA test along with a whole gammet of other tests. My PSA came up as 1.6, which the doctor said was good for my age, but I am still worried it is something else. If anyone ( and please no ridiculing) can give me some insight, and more than just a simple 2 sentence arbitrary statement, of what I need to do, some of your own experiences and coping mechanisms, because really am in a bad spot. Thanks for reading and I hope I can form some solid relationships with some of you.Be well everyone!
To say the least I feel so alone and relentlessly worried at this porn reboot process. I'm really hoping and praying there are some people on here that could give me great insight, because I really need it.
I'm a man in my early fifties, married with 4 children.Porn and visual masturbation has ruined my sex life, and my thoughts on sex and women. Before there was any info on the rebooting process, I had been hospitalized at least a half a dozen times from the mania that this addiction has caused me.It was the intense shame of not being able to perform sexually, that it drove me to insanity.As time went by, and Youtube came full circle, I was able to search porn addiction.I was floored at how some of these young men ( who should be at their most veral point of their lives) were suffering from ED. I've tried over and over again to quit, and have gotten as far as 17 days. Along with the dopamine hit of ejacualtion to porn, I added alcohol( only wine) in the mix.About 3 weeks ago I had a breakdown, because my weight had soared out of control, along with the drinking.Subsequently, I lost 35 lbs in 2 weeks, and quit drinking all together, and now battling abstinence from drinking, porn and a food addiction. It is hell on this earth. I almost felt better and more relaxed with being addicted.Now, I can't sleep, my urinating has become a problem, and I am so tense and my head is spinning out of control.I was so concerned about my health and what I had done, I went and got a physical.My chief concern was my prostate. My doctor did a PSA test along with a whole gammet of other tests. My PSA came up as 1.6, which the doctor said was good for my age, but I am still worried it is something else. If anyone ( and please no ridiculing) can give me some insight, and more than just a simple 2 sentence arbitrary statement, of what I need to do, some of your own experiences and coping mechanisms, because really am in a bad spot. Thanks for reading and I hope I can form some solid relationships with some of you.Be well everyone!