narfolee
Member
LS90,
No judgement here buddy. I fucked up early last week - had sex with an ex while I've just started dating someone I actually like!
I don't know if you know my story but I've suffered from minor PIED in the past and just recently decided to quit porn for good - telling my girl I think porn is the reason why I've been having boner probs. She supports it and decided to quit porn with me (yeah she admitted to using it!)
Anyways back to my fuck up. You had problems with ED with your girl...and worse problems with the rave girl. As a guy who is absolutely sex crazed I COULD NOT BELIEVE how soft my boner was (I'm talking 60-70%) when I was "doing wrong". I had a bad feeling in my stomach - and I lasted maybe 3-4 minutes because I felt myself going down and had to finish fast before I lost it.
Fast forward to this weekend. Back to the girl I'm dating. The one I like. The one who I'm honest with and who I want to have a future with? 3 successful orgasms, last one with a condom - which usually kills me.
You are discouraged cause you lost it with the new girl. Well I say take it as a sign...but that behind you. Focus your efforts on improving the relationship with your girl - and if you do like her, stop fucking around with "free to do whatever"...because if you see her run off with someone you might become a sad man. Capitalize. Romantisize. Take whats yours.
Peace brother - and have faith in your brain.
No judgement here buddy. I fucked up early last week - had sex with an ex while I've just started dating someone I actually like!
I don't know if you know my story but I've suffered from minor PIED in the past and just recently decided to quit porn for good - telling my girl I think porn is the reason why I've been having boner probs. She supports it and decided to quit porn with me (yeah she admitted to using it!)
Anyways back to my fuck up. You had problems with ED with your girl...and worse problems with the rave girl. As a guy who is absolutely sex crazed I COULD NOT BELIEVE how soft my boner was (I'm talking 60-70%) when I was "doing wrong". I had a bad feeling in my stomach - and I lasted maybe 3-4 minutes because I felt myself going down and had to finish fast before I lost it.
Fast forward to this weekend. Back to the girl I'm dating. The one I like. The one who I'm honest with and who I want to have a future with? 3 successful orgasms, last one with a condom - which usually kills me.
You are discouraged cause you lost it with the new girl. Well I say take it as a sign...but that behind you. Focus your efforts on improving the relationship with your girl - and if you do like her, stop fucking around with "free to do whatever"...because if you see her run off with someone you might become a sad man. Capitalize. Romantisize. Take whats yours.
Peace brother - and have faith in your brain.