Hoping to fix my DE...

noideawhattoput

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So let me start by saying a few things. I'm 21. I don't have a problem with ED.
I can get it up just fine on my own. It takes virtually nothing to get it up with my fuckbuddy around all she has to do is kiss me or brush up against me...

My issue is that she cums really quickly in bed, and I take forever. Typically she cums 3-4 times to my 1 but when I do cum I cum buckets.
Sex feels fantastic and I'm not worried about performance or anything.
I have to seriously work at it to cum though, I have to spend 5 solid minutes pounding away as fast and hard as I can just to orgasm.
You might be thinking 5 minutes isn't that long but when we've been fucking for an hour and shes cum 4+ times it starts to bother me that I can't get off.

We've been fucking for about a month and a half at most and during that time I think I've only masturbated twice which is a good start.
Before that however I would masturbate daily sometimes twice a day but always with porn or porn fantasies.
I'm excited to cure this, as I'm sure I'll feel a lot better over all.

I am however worried that I'll end up with PE...
I don't want to take 10 years but at the same time I want to be able to last a while and enjoy the journey not just the destination if that makes sense.
 

fugu

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What's your porn history like? If you've been a regular user for awhile, I certainly think quitting porn will help you out.
 

fugu

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noideawhattoput said:
When I was single, 1-2 times a day.
Even if I end up single again I don't want to go back to that.

Yeah, I would say that there is a real good chance that your DE is related to you pornography use. 1-2 times a day for a period of time is more than enough to desensitize your brain.

I'm interested to see how a reboot helps you out! How has it been going thus far?
 
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