Three days ago I received oral sex. I was able to get hard, sustain it, and orgasm. It was very enjoyable. Does this mean I'm cured? I've been waking up with MW more frequently as of late and I feel like a have a little bit of libido sometimes. I'm a little over two months in and this recent spark of libido happened after I touched myself one night to just thought (not fantasies, just the thought of a girl that I know) and the second time to a picture my girl sent me (probably not something I should have done, but at least it's her body which I'm familiar with and not a random porn star). I feel like I'm getting some good signs and I'm going to stop with the MO and only O when I'm with my girl. She wants to have sex in the near future (maybe a month or so). I really want to be ready for this. Does it sound like where I'm at I could be ready for this? I'm not sure how long my erections should last, when I'm with her they come and then they might go after a few minutes, but when she starts to give me oral or a handjob or something it goes back up. I feel myself start to get a little hard just when she strokes my arm or holds my hand. Obviously that doesn't turn into a full on hardon but I feel like it's a good sign. I feel like I got to like 97% hard with the oral this weekend. There are improvements I feel like I can make, but I feel as though I can function sexually. I don't feel like I'm in a total flatline anymore. Hopefully it stays that way.
HELP! Questions/Concerns About Progess in PIED
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grahamman said:
Hey! These are all great things! Sounds like you are really making progress, and, if you aren't recovered yet, you are well past the half way point. If you don't feel like you can perform consistently, keep pushing forward! You already have proof that your abstinence from porn and patience have shown very positive results...keep believing in the process! Your erections will only improve.
Keep us informed man! Sounds like you are doing great.
-Charlie
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Thanks for the kind words I really appreciate it! Today I was just making out with her and started to get pretty decently hard (65%ish). We did some grinding and it went down to like 50-55% but I think thats just because she was sitting on my dick and some circulation was cut off haha. Still want the erections to last longer though. I get up from kissing or rubbing or whatever then after a few minutes it will go back down until she actually starts to stimulate me (BJ/HJ). Just wondering if the erection from the kissing/rubbing should last the entire make-out session (about 20min) or if it's normal for it to go down until she starts to do something to me. Not feeling much libido at the moment. The libido was only for a few days. I feel a libido when I'm with her however. Guess it'll come back stronger with more rebooting.
Thanks for the kind words I really appreciate it! Today I was just making out with her and started to get pretty decently hard (65%ish). We did some grinding and it went down to like 50-55% but I think thats just because she was sitting on my dick and some circulation was cut off haha. Still want the erections to last longer though. I get up from kissing or rubbing or whatever then after a few minutes it will go back down until she actually starts to stimulate me (BJ/HJ). Just wondering if the erection from the kissing/rubbing should last the entire make-out session (about 20min) or if it's normal for it to go down until she starts to do something to me. Not feeling much libido at the moment. The libido was only for a few days. I feel a libido when I'm with her however. Guess it'll come back stronger with more rebooting.
narfolee
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Hey graham.
Same things happens to me actually with my girl. Just making out - I have maybe half a boner. Until she starts stimulating me and then it gets stronger. If she stops for say - more than 45 seconds, it starts to go back down!
Definitely PIED. Started my reboot 8 days ago or something. Had sex with her for 2 hours just this past weekend, WITH a full flask of rum in me (drunk).
I'm 20 years old, 210 pounds, and work out every day.
When I go down on her in the past, I become uninterested and lose my boner. This past weekend, I gave her oral sex for at least 15 mins and she kind of jacked me off while I was doing it. Kept my boner the whole time.
I think the reason I was so successful while drunk is because I didn't care. I didn't care if I lost it and wasn't thinking about my own cock. I was thinking about how good she looked while it was inside of her haha! And thats the way I aim to be for good once I reboot completely.
Same things happens to me actually with my girl. Just making out - I have maybe half a boner. Until she starts stimulating me and then it gets stronger. If she stops for say - more than 45 seconds, it starts to go back down!
Definitely PIED. Started my reboot 8 days ago or something. Had sex with her for 2 hours just this past weekend, WITH a full flask of rum in me (drunk).
I'm 20 years old, 210 pounds, and work out every day.
When I go down on her in the past, I become uninterested and lose my boner. This past weekend, I gave her oral sex for at least 15 mins and she kind of jacked me off while I was doing it. Kept my boner the whole time.
I think the reason I was so successful while drunk is because I didn't care. I didn't care if I lost it and wasn't thinking about my own cock. I was thinking about how good she looked while it was inside of her haha! And thats the way I aim to be for good once I reboot completely.
Yeah exact same with me. I'll go down on her or finger her and she looks so sexy and she's moaning and stuff etc. and I don't have a boner with that. But when she starts to touch me I do. I want to get to the point where I can get aroused just from pleasuring her. Guess that just means we still have healing to do, but we're getting closer.