Thank you for this. It’s where my wife and I are now. Something I heard before was for every 1 negative interaction you need 5 positive interactions for a marriage to last. Obviously there are situations that don’t apply to this but my wife and I strive to attain this. We went back to dating each other, me made more time for each other and we improved our communication skills it takes work and we still have peaks and valleys but it’s working well for us at the moment. Nothing in life is guaranteed, she could walk up tomorrow and tell me she just can’t do it anymore but at least I have an honest effort into being the best version of me in the time being.