itsoverboyo
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Coming on 1.5 years into my reboot. Severe, severe multi decade porn addiction that ruined my life. Became able to get an erection with a woman a few months into my reboot. Unfortunately, have not met or connected with any women and been able to have sex. So I started sleeping with strippers. Basically, you go to the strip club, they come by and when you see one you like you take them to the back room and get a BJ and fuck them for a few hundred bucks. The depression caught up with me and the loneliness and lack of ability to meet women during my reboot for sex, and the urges just became strong enough that I started engaging in this stupid behavior. I have used ED drugs at times but I don't think I actually need them, more as an insurance policy given that you really NEED to perform or you will waste your money. How bad of a habit is this for my recovery? I've slid downhill.. started smoking a lot of weed and doing this, and I feel as if it is destroying all of my gains. My dick does work at least now, but the problem is that I don't see this getting me anywhere. It's just difficult to cope with the fact that I can't connect with the vast majority of women and when the depression and loneliness gets bad, this form of 'real life porn' seems to be a temporary outlet. But of course, it leads to more and more depression and loneliness. I also tend to feel a lot better when retaining my seed, and I don't feel much different from prostitute sex than I did when i was fapping to porn. The post nut malaise feeling is just the same. Maybe it would be different with someone I cared about, unfortunately haven't had the opportunity to find out. I have tried AD medications and none of them work. Every orgasm is sending me into flatlines again, bad flatlines that last at least a few days. Reminds me of my porn addiction days. I can't tell if this is because of the partner choices or if this is a medical problem in which I will flatline no matter how deep the connection is.
Input would be appreciated. Thanks.
Input would be appreciated. Thanks.