What makes you want to kick your induced fetishes

[AnAverageGuy23]

This may sound a stupid question but what makes you want to kick them, they're fetishes which means you obviously enjoy them so why, no way am I tying to say you shouldn't by the way I completely think you should, what I think I'm asking is what gives you the motivation to do so if you enjoy them? I'm not sure If I have a porn induced fetish I think I do, I guess I hope I do, but if I enjoy it what motivation do I have, this may sound so fucked up but I don't really know where else to turn or what to do.

 

[Joe_Reynolds]

Hey, I have a porn induced futanari fetish, and if I'm really wanting to get an intense orgasm I turn to futanari because it gives me a dopamine kick that regular porn just doesn't anymore. Although I enjoy it when I'm horny, once I'm not it's kind of a turn off more than it is a turn on. I want to kick this induced fetish because it's making me doubt my sexuality even though I know I'm straight for one, and because it's causing me more issues such as porn induced ED, lack of interest in women in real life, and low sex drive/libido. Although futanari technically does give me the libido boost I'm looking for, I'm much more interested in having sex in real life with the girl that I love, so I know that I must kick the fetish to enjoy the little thugs in life again, and especially the big ones like girls. I hope that helped!

 

[dwenjang1218]

Here's my simplified explanation of desensitization that I posted some time ago.

yourbrainonporn is a great site that has all the info you need
but I'll get you started by teaching you what I can about desensitization,
which is one of the key factors that gets you addicted to porn.

Right now your brain is heavily desensitized.
This means that your brain is too used to porn, which is highly stimulating,
that it fails to recognize real sex, which is relatively less stimulating.
It's like your brain is tricked into thinking real sex isn't "sex".

Imagine a scale of one to ten measuring the stimulation (sexual or not) of anything you come across in your life.

Normal porn is like 10. Hardcore bondage teenage taboo S&M bukkake porn is like 15.
(Note that the above levels are very unnatural)
real life sex is like 7.
Playing sports ~5
non-sexual Interaction with woman ~5.
Watching movie ~4
Listening to music ~3
Cooking ~2
and so on.

***the numbers are completely arbitrary and made up. Just know that porn is the most stimulating of them all.

For guys that watch porn everyday, the stimulation level is hitting above 10 on a regular basis.
Once the brain gets used to that stimulation level,
any activity below that level will feel much less exciting (desensitization).

For guys that go through reboot and not watch porn or masturbate at all,
Sex is the most stimulating thing they can get their hands on. It will feel like a 10.
In fact, every other activity on the list will have moved up a few levels accordingly.
So for these guys, simple everyday activity like listening to music will get them somewhat excited.

FYI, this phenomenon is not limited to porn. Any kind of addiction is a result of desensitization.

I hope the others will read over what I wrote and correct me if I'm wrong,
cuz I'm also new to this stuff and i'm not 100% sure.

So in summary, when you become addicted to porn so much that you start to develop weird porn fetishes,
Real sex won't be stimulating enough for you to get an erection. (PIED)
On top of that, your dependence on fetishes will increase (it never decreases),
you will develop brain fog, lack of concentration, depression, lack of motivation to do anything, nervousness, lack of confidence,
tendency to avoid real life problems by resorting to PMO, the list is endless.

Simply put, they are drugs.

 

[doneatlast]

My particular fetish isn't too gross, but it would raise eyebrows if ever mentioned.  Plus, it is something that probably would never be really acted out in life, so it exists only within porn.  My biggest problem with said fetish is that triggers are EVERYWHERE.

 

[Canuck99]

The only fetish I had was that I got turned on by girls who looked like they were in "real life" situations but aware of the camera or whatever.