Hello everyone, I’m new to this forum. I used to journal elsewhere, but I’m not sure if I’ll start a new one here or not. I wanted to ask a particular question that I’ve yet to see asked directly on this or any other forum or porn addiction resource…
Will a successful, internet-based freelance career (design, coding, online writing, content creation, online business, etc.) ever be a possibility for a recovering porn addict?
Technically, I get that it’s ‘possible’, but is it be advisable? Wouldn’t it be a constant struggle to stay sober and focussed on the task at hand, particularly if you were busy and stressed? To me it’s synonymous with a recovering alcoholic becoming a bartender - your poison is always within reach at a moment’s notice. Just one click away.
Having struggled to overcome this addiction for over 10 years now, I’m acutely aware of how my job has kept me stuck in front of a computer and using the internet for the whole day, which I’m sure has impacted my ability to recover.
I quit my design job this year, and I’m seriously considering getting a job that is a more ‘real-world’ physical role like working in a store or some kind of trade. I find the constant pressure of having to be ‘creative’ every day and consistently come up with new and interesting solutions to tight deadlines (while doing so alone in an online setting) makes it almost impossible to stay calm, clean and motivated.
To me, the solution to overcoming this addiction lies in engaging with reality - the physical world. I’ve spent my life immersed in a digital haze, bombarded by information overload and dopaminergic stimulation. Can our brains ever be taught to use the internet in a focussed and balanced manner?
The catch is, my only real skill is that I’m good with computers, and I prefer the autonomy of the freelance lifestyle. I’m terrible at building and repairing things, and I’m an awful salesman and communicator. Do I have to abandon all of the previous experience and skills that I’ve developed and try something completely different, or is there a way to thrive in a digital career post-reboot?
I’d love to hear from other people on how this addiction has impacted their digital careers, and if they have managed to salvage them as part of recovery, or if they have gone through a career change in order to move forward with their life. How did you do it? I hope to hear from some of you.
Will a successful, internet-based freelance career (design, coding, online writing, content creation, online business, etc.) ever be a possibility for a recovering porn addict?
Technically, I get that it’s ‘possible’, but is it be advisable? Wouldn’t it be a constant struggle to stay sober and focussed on the task at hand, particularly if you were busy and stressed? To me it’s synonymous with a recovering alcoholic becoming a bartender - your poison is always within reach at a moment’s notice. Just one click away.
Having struggled to overcome this addiction for over 10 years now, I’m acutely aware of how my job has kept me stuck in front of a computer and using the internet for the whole day, which I’m sure has impacted my ability to recover.
I quit my design job this year, and I’m seriously considering getting a job that is a more ‘real-world’ physical role like working in a store or some kind of trade. I find the constant pressure of having to be ‘creative’ every day and consistently come up with new and interesting solutions to tight deadlines (while doing so alone in an online setting) makes it almost impossible to stay calm, clean and motivated.
To me, the solution to overcoming this addiction lies in engaging with reality - the physical world. I’ve spent my life immersed in a digital haze, bombarded by information overload and dopaminergic stimulation. Can our brains ever be taught to use the internet in a focussed and balanced manner?
The catch is, my only real skill is that I’m good with computers, and I prefer the autonomy of the freelance lifestyle. I’m terrible at building and repairing things, and I’m an awful salesman and communicator. Do I have to abandon all of the previous experience and skills that I’ve developed and try something completely different, or is there a way to thrive in a digital career post-reboot?
I’d love to hear from other people on how this addiction has impacted their digital careers, and if they have managed to salvage them as part of recovery, or if they have gone through a career change in order to move forward with their life. How did you do it? I hope to hear from some of you.
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