This is my first post. I'm new to all this, and trying to stop almost 30 years of PMO. I've tried stopping countless times without long term success. I'm trying again but this time with support in place. My TH suggested I join a support group bc by keeping this a secret I'll continue to struggle. I've got a week "clean" right now, my longest streak is a month in the past 15 years. Before then it was several months. Right now it's only bc of will power, but I don't know how much longer that's going to last. Where do I start? How do I continue this progress?
Yo it’s me again
I was thinking about your situation, because I feel this situation so much
At this time I’m working in a psychiatry for my education and this work give me a lot questions “why do people things” etc.
Well… and then I was thinking about you
One big deal is…. Time
Believe me or not… having time can be great or it is the reason for sickness
At school/work etc. it’s difficult to watch porn and maybe you are not thinking about it
You are coming home and BOOM .. free mind and you have space
Remember people in 1960 for example
They don’t had time for porn… working hard and having a family—> always hustling
Plus how you think is a point
Of course you are failing again and again when you are saying „I’m sick… I’m not ok“ -> you are destroying yourself
How you think and live is important for your recovery
It’s a different between „I have to do this“ and „I wanna do this“
If something become your lifestyle… it’s such easier to do this
When you are thinking „I wanna live this life without porn“ it’s easier because it’s sounds not like you are „temporary defect“
It’s more like giving support to yourself