I have been here since the beginning trying to help partners go through their journey. Partners have helped others with their stories and their recovery for themselves. Some amazing women and men have posted on the pages here. I have often hoped they have been able to live their best lives. I am truly honored to have been able to know them. It is difficult to understand the mush brain that occurs with discovery. It is helpful to have a place to discover you are not crazy. Some men over the years have asked for help in understanding their partner. I want everyone to know that it is important to stay active in your work for recovery. Recovery as an addict or recovery as a partner. To quote a popular song, it is a long and winding road.