I did something dumb

I made it 7 Months and I was starting to get 80% erections with girls and some girl started texting me dirty texts and I masturbated. Has anything like this happened to anyone? Any ideas how far this might set me back. Thanks for the support and feedback. Good luck to everyone
 

Yelashade

Member
randomrussian,

First off, congrats on your 7 months! Very impressive :). I would not worry about that at all! That's perfectly natural, however, I would suggest you try to progress to actual sex with this girl so that you can maintain your rewiring process.

Masturbation is NOT a setback. Yes I suppose it's some form of "erotica", but this is with a girl you're interested in. Now go have some fun ;)

Good luck on your journey!
 

qrayzHD

Active Member
I'm not an expert but as it was a one off thing with text rather then anything hardcore i wouldn't even stress about it, but if you were to continue masturbating to artificial sexual stimuli then it would likely start multiplying the damage to a point where you lose all of your progress, so i wouldn't do it. 7 months is an awesome achievement by any standard, looking forward to getting there myself.
 
Thanks a lot for your feedback and encouraging words. Congratulations to you both for your achievements and good luck with your goals. I hope my English makes sense. Thanks again and great luck!
 

Rudy

Member
Haha, did something very similar today. Some hot chick called me today and she quickly directed the conversation into sex, turned me on so much I had to rub one out on the phone. I was only on day 12 of no fap but other than today I have had no urge to fap at all. As the good doctor says the real key is avoiding internet porn, and I haven't so much as peeked at that for an instant since I made my decision (albeit only 12 days ago). The very thought of fucking myself up worse by watching any porn and having PIED ever again is so hateful to me, watching porn is like suicide.

What I did today is not something I want to do anymore though, I will go on the hardest hard mode possible to speed up my recovery ASAP.
 
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