i've been free from P for almost 2 months, free from MO for the last 10 days.
During those 2 months, I've tried to have sex for 7 times, out of which one time has been successful.
But after the successful sex, I exprienced wild chaser effect, which made me MO for 10 days out of 17 days.
So I thought that O through sex is still closely connected to MO in my brain.
I've heard that during the early phase of the reboot, it is not safe to have sex because the orgrasm exprienced through sex stimulates the old neural pathways that's related to the addiction to porn and MO.
It's been for me to go without porn, but MO seems to be the problem. I'm convinced from my experience that MO is not good for penile erection.
So I'm trying to go without MO for the rest of my life, but from time to time I fantasize about my gf, and have the urge to MO.
Anyways, for me, at this stage of my reboot, I can't get erections from kissing or cuddling or etc. But I can get erections with viagra+a little handjob from my gf.
So I'm wondering, considering my situation, when will it be appropriate to have sex with gf, not to stimulate the chaser effect?
Also, should I wait until I can get erections just by kissing without the help of viagra?
During those 2 months, I've tried to have sex for 7 times, out of which one time has been successful.
But after the successful sex, I exprienced wild chaser effect, which made me MO for 10 days out of 17 days.
So I thought that O through sex is still closely connected to MO in my brain.
I've heard that during the early phase of the reboot, it is not safe to have sex because the orgrasm exprienced through sex stimulates the old neural pathways that's related to the addiction to porn and MO.
It's been for me to go without porn, but MO seems to be the problem. I'm convinced from my experience that MO is not good for penile erection.
So I'm trying to go without MO for the rest of my life, but from time to time I fantasize about my gf, and have the urge to MO.
Anyways, for me, at this stage of my reboot, I can't get erections from kissing or cuddling or etc. But I can get erections with viagra+a little handjob from my gf.
So I'm wondering, considering my situation, when will it be appropriate to have sex with gf, not to stimulate the chaser effect?
Also, should I wait until I can get erections just by kissing without the help of viagra?