Help! I come really fast, but I'm not able to maintain a full erection

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Tim1152

Guest
Hey guys, first of all, I'm more than glad that I have found this page.

My story: I watched porn since I'm 12. And I guess I suffered from DE since I'm 13. I had my first blowjob with 13 years old and I wasn't able to come till I thought about porn, while she gave me head. I know, this is YEARS ago, but I never forgot that.

Apart from that I was never addicted to porn in a way that I wasn't able to controle it. I loved that shit and there was no reason for me at all to stop watching porn, till I reaslied, that my erection problems were porn related. Therefore I had no problems at all with not watching porn while I was rebooting. I didn't even have a flatline.

My situation: I suffer(ed) from ED and DE. Therefore I started a reboot in August, no masturbation, no porn. At that point I had sex regularly. Almost every time, it was impossible for me to get an erection with a condom. It worked a lot better when I started to take Viagra, which I take almost all the time for 2 years now, but the problems were still there and even with Viagra, I wasn't able to get a rock solid erection all the time

After 4 weeks I realised that I also need to stop having orgasms. Everything got better, but all the time I had an orgasm, my problems came back. So I stopped and it worked. After 76 days of no PMO, I had my first orgasm ever with a condom inside a pussy after 25 years. I came really fast, I guess after 2-5 minutes.

BUT I wasn't able to maintain a full erection. After 2-3 minutes I felt how my erection decreased (really just a little bit, I was still able to have sex, just not with a rock hard erection), whereas getting an orgasm (with a condom) was pretty easy (but my dick wasn't 100% hard. I also have to say that I just decided to come, because I was afraid of losing my erection completely).

I have to admit, I'm really confused, because my DE is gone, but my ED is still there (whereas MUCH lower, compared to 3 month ago. I wasn't even able to have sex with a condom for more than 10 seconds). How is that possible? I actually thought it would probably be the other way around.

My questions:

Should I stop having sex and orgasms again, if yes, for how long?
If no, should I avoid orgasm?

I also think about taking Viagra again (without having orgasms). I couldn?t find something refering to if it would set me back.


Tim

P.S.: I get morning woods and spontaneous erections frequently and my libido is high.
 

Stevew

Well-Known Member
You 've had this since your 13? Dude it will take you alot longer to recover for some it can take 1-2 years. Your doing well though looks like your close to recovery just keep at it 6 months time you should be fully cured.
 

Bspy107

Member
same thing happened to me i stated it in my journal if you wanna read it go ahead http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=2747.0

 
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Yeah i know what you mean mate! So scared that you cant cum or keep it hard that you just race to the jizzy finish line. I think after a while the addiction to porn gives you confidence issues which leads to performance anxiety.
Theres no worse feeling than trying to cram a limp penis into a girl and seeing the look on her face
 
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