Girlfriend left me / joined army

[ArmyGarden]

Hey, Ive been watching porn since I was 14 years old. Started watching more and more with the years. Im now in my early 20's and im realy positive i have ED. I was virgin until the age of 18, with my first girlfriend. Before that I had only mastrubated to porn.

I figured something was wrong when I first has sex with her.. I did get erection but i lost it after few second, so I had a huge problem putting my penis into her vagina. I started to get mad, frustrated and sad. I tought it was because i was nervous wich would have explained the cause.. but we tried over over and over again I was never able to get erection because I would lose it before I was able to do anything... If she was jerking me off, it worked normal wich was strange but once she stopped I would loose it again... but when im alone in my room and watch porn I get the best erections ever and i will never loose the blood.. it will stay there by just staring at it.. She tought it was her fault, and that I didnt have real feelings for her..and she left me later on cause she was upset and se was crying aswell.. I just saw this web site and watched all the youtube series.

So you guyz recommend me stop all use of porn and mastrubation so my brain can reboot/recover? ( sorry bad English )

thanks for support =)

 

[tkn0]

So you guyz recommend me stop all use of porn and mastrubation so my brain can reboot/recover?

Hello ArmyGarden, welcome to this amazing forum.
Yes I would recommend you completely stop with porn AND masturbation.
I went 30 days without orgasm, but I still watched pictures sometimes, and masturbated to "the edge" a few times... this ultimately led to a fullon PMO sessions because of the dopamine and cravings I had built up in my body.

I recommend you stay away from any synthetic sexual stimulation(masturbation, porn, images) anything that isnt a real woman.
In my experience, the first week is the most difficult. But after that, things get easier. Just make it thru one week and you will se amazing results, then continue on.

 

[ArmyGarden]

Okey, I will start from today then. I Joined army two weeks ago and i have less time there to think about mastrubation that could help me to take my mind of it But I will have semen ejaculation ( if that was the right word for it ) but that would be normal tho?

 

[tkn0]

But I will have semen ejaculation ( if that was the right word for it ) but that would be normal tho?

If you mean masturbating to ejaculation, this is not recommended. Because your brain is wired to think of porn whenever you masturbate.
Your brain will just rewire the same pathways, even without the porn. Because you will probably fantasize about porn, even if you are not looking.

If you NEED to masturbate, which as I said, do not recommend. Do it without porn or any visual stimulation, and try to have a blank mind when doing this. Just focus on the sensation and feeling.

 

[tkn0]

Most people rebooting have also felt that masturbation slows down the progress.

 

[ArmyGarden]

Yeah, But if I sleep and wake up with semen all over my pants. That would be normal hehe? If you get what I mean. Cause I think I would have wet dreams.
By the way thanks for the welcome

 

[tkn0]

Yeah, But if I sleep and wake up with semen all over my pants. That would be normal hehe? If you get what I mean. Cause I think I would have wet dreams.
By the way thanks for the welcome

Yeah thats okey mate, its just your body releasing by itself

 

[ArmyGarden]

Thanks for the support I will start from today and make a new thread/Post later ! Screw porn

 

[tkn0]

Thanks for the support I will start from today and make a new thread/Post later ! Screw porn

Good luck mate, we are here for you!

 

[dwenjang1218]

Wet dream is natural (it's actually desired for people like me).
I'm on day 15 no PMO and I'm still waiting for that release.
Though I understand that it would be really awkward to get caught having a wet dream in the army lol.
Whatever you choose, just don't fantasize about pornography... EVER.
That's the most important part.

 

[ArmyGarden]

Hey. Yeah it will be really awkward!
But its so hard for me NOT to fantasize about it ! I do it all the god damn time without even joking.. im trying to stop it but its hard..It's really hard when im about to go to bed. Guess I just need to practice not too do it.

I didnt mastrubate the first two weeks in the army..and the last night before we had a small vacation I actually had a wet dream.. I came home and started mastrubate to porn as a mad man! And hours later I found this site So Im on my first day now again hehe.

Thanks