Delayed Ejaculation. Need Help

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NeedingHelp21

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I started masturbating at age 12 and to porn at 13, usually once every day or once every two days. I definitely was addicted, I had strong urges to watch porn/masturbate, almost like I was being forced to do so, and would feel really bad afterwords. Long story short i went through a severe depression and resorted to online dating, i stopped cold turkey with porn and masturbating, lost all of my libido and horny-ness. I would log onto these dating sites multiple times a day for months, I kinda traded my porn addiction for online dating addiction lol

I met a girl (shes wonderful, were a math made in heaven  ;D) tried to have sex first time couldn't get it up, next time tried some fore play (blow job) got it up, everything went great, loved it along with the next few times. One night I couldn't cum? I was wearing kind of a thick condom, maybe thats why? Now in order to cum I have to concentrate very hard and sometimes I just cant. Performance anxiety maybe?

Well its been about 3 months sense ive watched porn and I dont ever plan on watching anymore, Ive lost all urges to do so anyways. Me being able to get hard really isnt a problem anymore, ive gotten better in that department. But I used to be worried about pre-ejaculation now I have delayed ejaculation, why is this? I do have slightly low-testosterone and might get hormone replacement therapy soon btw.

I need help, not being able to cum during intercourse is hell. Any advice?
 
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