Hardness During Different Situations

grahamman

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I'm able to get almost fully hard when my gf straddles me and we makeout. But when I finger her/go down on her I seem to loose it. Is that PIED related or is that normal?
 
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OSS

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Could be PIED related. One of the main aspects of PIED is the need for novel or constant changing stimulation. Depending on how old you are if porn was never in your life you should be hard just from the thought of going down on your girlfriend.

There's really only one way to find out, stop watching porn for a month and perhaps quit masturbating for a month also and see what happens. If you're comparatively harder when going down on her then you have your anwser
 

grahamman

Member
I haven't watched porn in 3 months. I've MOed a few times when dirty texting my gf which is bad for the reboot and I've stopped. I've seen improvements in that I can get hard from just kissing and also straddling/ass grabbing but not yet going down on her. In time I guess
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Yeah i had a similar experience. I could get rock hard over porn but floppy when eating her out/licking her arse, etc.
i stopped porn and tossing for a week and noticed a massive difference. Or she would jerk me with lube as i thumbed her/ licked her arse,etc.
if you have an understanding partner you can work things out
 
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Username

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Well, what is considered "normal"? That's just a very vague term. Still, you are designed to have an erection while being aroused to be prepared for intercourse - from nature's point of view. Therefore, I'd second the previous three posts. Personally, I noticed tremendous changes during previous streaks.
 

fugu

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A lot of people report fluctuations in there ability to get hard depending on the situation, so I would THINK that your experience is similar to that. As an example, I know some guys have said they can't get an erection to the anticipation of sex, but spring right up when they think about oral sex or whatever. It's a phase you are in during the re-sensitization process.
 

grahamman

Member
Seems I also can't get hard until she starts to warm me up/tease me but even then it's not 100%. I think I'm in a flatline but I woke up this morning soaked in my own cum but don't recall having a wet dream at all. Very weird.
 
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