Psycho therapists confusing me

[Secondhalf]

Has anyone had an experience with a counselor or psychiatrist where you discuss your physical, emotional stress and they say it's not as bad as you think, or ins some cases even recommend more masturbation? (without porn).  It's tough because deep down I know this hell is part of the rocess and it can't be normalized until my brain re balances.  Even infrequent pmo'ng (maybe once every month) causes severe distress and physical deficiency.  I believe we have to stay strong and maybe even teach these doctors a thing or two.  Even if there is a psycho somatic component, porn is just destructive.  Better off without it

 

[Mbg]

I would recommend a cognitive behavioral therapist that specializes in sex addiction.  If your therapist doesn't understand your distress then find someone else.

 

[Fappy]

Yeah maybe find someone that better suits your needs.
Or youll be like i was, telling a therapist you thought it was completly normal to not go to work and stay home and get drunk on cheap wine by yourself, dress up like a clown then fap yourself raw to fart porn.
Best try another therapist

 

[kopp]

I somehow understand him because not masturbating is not the long term solution to happiness, and abstinence could cause stress and stuff. But still, for now, short to mid term, you need to stop it.

 

[Secondhalf]

Yeah I agree.  I think instead of abstinence life with my giel will get much better.  i am already sensing a shift towards he now that I am staying strong,  thanks for all of your advice.

 

[kopp]

Keep up the good work