Killa_Mike
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Hello all,
I am a 26 year old and I suspect I (mildly) suffer from Porn Induced ED (PIED); however I would like to share my story with you and have your opinions please. I have tried to have sex with my partner on several occasions and have had ups and downs with it, but are faced with 2 issues whenever we try:
1. She feels very tight and I cannot penetrate all the way through (can only get about the head in)
2. It is usually difficult for me to maintain my erection and it is as if it needs constant stimulation
I discovered masturbation around the age of 12-13 without any porn, but with broadband by around 14-15, I began PMO; however, I have always predominantly stuck with softcore material (generally material safe for YouTube) and remained with my fetish for female derri?res.
However, I had a revelation at the age of 18 where I completely gave up PMO and decided to become a new man. Shortly after, I found myself in a relationship, few months in and we began foreplay, the first time she stroked my penis I came in moments. My doctor advised it was premature ejaculation (PE) and actually suggested PMO. I was very reluctant to do so, but eager to control my PE, I began MO and after around a year without any PMO I gradually was thrown fully back into it by around age 20.
By around the age 24, we first tried intercourse which did not go so well, seeking advice we did progress in future attempts (possibly due to gradual reduced amount of PMO?). Around the start of 2014, I stumbled across YBOP website and decided to drop porn. However after reading the theories on the site being dismissed elsewhere and being advised by GP that it is performance anxiety, I was back on PMO at a reduced frequency after around 1-2 months without porn.
Having revisiting the site recently, I have decided to go for a more serious reboot to get this fixed once and for all, and am already 1 week in.
My PMO habits haven?t changed much over the years apart from the fact that I think progressively I would edge more and more looking for novelty and finding that new ?perfect? material to finish.
Nevertheless, I don?t really have difficulty getting an erection or even orgasm with my partner, mainly maintaining my erection during sex seems to be the issue. I don?t have any problem with morning wood either and still sometimes get spontaneous wood, whenever I wake up alarm free it seems to be there and seems to be at its hardest. Although standing up makes it go down quite quickly.
With all that being said, I would like to know your thoughts on my situation, particularly:
- I know it?s difficult to say for sure, but roughly how long would you think it would take me to reboot given my story?
- Will having actual sex set me back? I?ve heard contradictory things.
- How will I know when I have fully reset?
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my story and I look forward to your responses
Mike
I am a 26 year old and I suspect I (mildly) suffer from Porn Induced ED (PIED); however I would like to share my story with you and have your opinions please. I have tried to have sex with my partner on several occasions and have had ups and downs with it, but are faced with 2 issues whenever we try:
1. She feels very tight and I cannot penetrate all the way through (can only get about the head in)
2. It is usually difficult for me to maintain my erection and it is as if it needs constant stimulation
I discovered masturbation around the age of 12-13 without any porn, but with broadband by around 14-15, I began PMO; however, I have always predominantly stuck with softcore material (generally material safe for YouTube) and remained with my fetish for female derri?res.
However, I had a revelation at the age of 18 where I completely gave up PMO and decided to become a new man. Shortly after, I found myself in a relationship, few months in and we began foreplay, the first time she stroked my penis I came in moments. My doctor advised it was premature ejaculation (PE) and actually suggested PMO. I was very reluctant to do so, but eager to control my PE, I began MO and after around a year without any PMO I gradually was thrown fully back into it by around age 20.
By around the age 24, we first tried intercourse which did not go so well, seeking advice we did progress in future attempts (possibly due to gradual reduced amount of PMO?). Around the start of 2014, I stumbled across YBOP website and decided to drop porn. However after reading the theories on the site being dismissed elsewhere and being advised by GP that it is performance anxiety, I was back on PMO at a reduced frequency after around 1-2 months without porn.
Having revisiting the site recently, I have decided to go for a more serious reboot to get this fixed once and for all, and am already 1 week in.
My PMO habits haven?t changed much over the years apart from the fact that I think progressively I would edge more and more looking for novelty and finding that new ?perfect? material to finish.
Nevertheless, I don?t really have difficulty getting an erection or even orgasm with my partner, mainly maintaining my erection during sex seems to be the issue. I don?t have any problem with morning wood either and still sometimes get spontaneous wood, whenever I wake up alarm free it seems to be there and seems to be at its hardest. Although standing up makes it go down quite quickly.
With all that being said, I would like to know your thoughts on my situation, particularly:
- I know it?s difficult to say for sure, but roughly how long would you think it would take me to reboot given my story?
- Will having actual sex set me back? I?ve heard contradictory things.
- How will I know when I have fully reset?
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my story and I look forward to your responses
Mike
