Sex and reboot

[greaternest]

Hey, I'm a 20 year old guy who is healing from PIED. I started my reboot two weeks ago and  I have absolutely no desire for masturbation. Actually I'm in a huge flatline with some random erections and a morning wood that happened to me a few days ago for the first time in a long time.  I actually have little desire for sex but I met this girl I really like. She's really hot and I know I can have sex with her anytime now but I think that I'm not ready for this yet. Plus I read that O during a reboot can draw my progress back.  I really want this girl but I'm afraid of an another ED failure, what should I do?

 

[OSS]

Don't focus on sex or your dick right now.

Definitely don't avoid seeing her because you're afraid of ED. Just focus on spending time with her and the minor things like kissing, remember everything is rewiring to some degree, kissing, hugging, holding hands, talking, oral.

Here is what I would do;

Be super super strict on artificial stimulation and masturbation

Spend as much with her as possible before trying to have sex, IF you fail when it happens don't panic, you can still get her off in other ways and if you're not ready to tell her about porn just say it's due to some prescription pills or something. If you still have ED I would avoid orgasm, you can still have sex and get blown just stop before you orgasm. An orgasm with a women is going to be the least detrimental orgasm you can have, for some it doesn't really effect them negatively so you kind of just have to see how it goes.. If you notice after orgasming you have worse erections, libido, mood, energy etc then you know you should avoid them.