Will Rebooting ever bring me my horniness back again?

[tylerdurden]

Hey guys,
I?m on my 4th reboot-attempt now. First one 54 days (Then MO) and 72 days no PMO, then relapsed to porn again. Then 36 days and 89 days. And my last one was 50 days. There were also many shorter streaks, like 5-10 days. I?m able to have sex again and i?m not depressed anymore, but my libido just won?t come back on a regular basis. I don?t have the slightest urge to masturbate in the moment. I have faced many flatlines and came out of them, but everytime i started to masturbate on a regular level (maybe 5 times a week) again, after maybe 1-2 months my libido disappeared. I don?t know, wheter a longer no PMO-period would solve this problem. I?m really frustrated. I?m even thinking of taking external herbal aphrodisiacs and if nothing helps, i?m considering to take small amounts of testosterone, because maybe i just have low t, even if that is quite unlikely, because of my young age and my physical appearance. What do you think ? Will my natural libido ever come back again through rebooting? I?m pornfree for a year now and i?m not sure anymore, if there are any further significant improvements possible.
I would be glad if someone has a success storie in a similar situation or some effective recommendations how i can increase my libido in generell.
best regards

 

[qrayzHD]

If you could get horny watching porn then chances are there is nothing wrong with your libido, rather you have wired your brain to only experience horniness from porn. I know exactly what it feels like because i haven't experienced horniness in years, even porn stopped making me horny after a while. Gabe Deem only got some libido back after 180 days of no porn and masturbation, it takes time but we will heal.

 

[Chaos Mind]

Maybe you should start listening more to your body? If your dick sais "no, 5 times MO a week is too much", then just don't. Only masturbate when you feel like you want it. PMO, however, should stay completely off the table of course.

You enjoy sex, you are not depressed...so why would you change a thing of what you are doing? Of course sex will never have that overwhelming effect on you as PMO had. But that's exactly the point why we are all here. It's as if an ex-alcoholic said "oh man...I've been clean for a year now, but smelling beer just ain't the same like drinking one. What do I do wrong?". Maybe you should appreciate what you've achieved. Get along with the situation and enjoy what you have. One day your mind will accept that THIS is all it gets and that beautiful sex with a woman you love is the non-plus-ultra in the sexual context.

Your success is huge, man! Look at how long your periods lasted and how much has changed. You are doing a fantastic job, seriously!