Hi, I'm 21 years old and looking for some useful advice. Here is my whole story so you can understand my situation better.
My first ever sexual experience with a partner 3 years ago failed. I thought I was just nervous, but there was no reason to feel nervous around her, so I realized a bit later that I had ED dur to porn addiction. I watched porn and masturbated without having orgasm, I thought it was a good idea (was not...) and did not have any sexual contact with her for 1 month. After that we tried a few times and it did work out slowly, but after that we had a great sex life.
After we broke up i had nearly one year without sexual intercourse, because of emotional damage caused by the breakup. I was regularly watching porn and masturbatig again. Then I met someone and became "fuckbuddies" then a couple. This time we had a totally working sexlife, even though I didnt stop porn and masturbating. At the last month of our relationship I started to experience some problems: not getting hard enough, couldnt maintain erection during intecourse and sometimes low libido.
When we broke up I didnt think it was my previous addiction again, but now I met a girl and I couldnt get hard again. Luckily she understood and said that we have time, but it turns out that she is going abroad in one month for a long period. Now I am quite desperate, because I have feelings for herand really want to get intimate with her, but I am not sure if one month is enough for me to reboot.
I stopped watching porn a week ago, but cant help touching myself sometimes, but I will stop it now too. She regularly sends me nudes, do you think it is bad for my reboot?
After this one week without porn I feel most of the time that my libido is really low, it is kind of scary, but I read all the articles on the subject and they say it is normal.
I also thought about taking testosterone enhancing supplements (tribulus terrestris), I think MAYBE it will help, but I'm not sure. I used it sometime back, but then my sex life was normal with my first partner and it just made my high libido even higher (it was great though).
What are your thoughts on this? Please help, I'm really desperate, I feel like I don't have enough time!!
My first ever sexual experience with a partner 3 years ago failed. I thought I was just nervous, but there was no reason to feel nervous around her, so I realized a bit later that I had ED dur to porn addiction. I watched porn and masturbated without having orgasm, I thought it was a good idea (was not...) and did not have any sexual contact with her for 1 month. After that we tried a few times and it did work out slowly, but after that we had a great sex life.
After we broke up i had nearly one year without sexual intercourse, because of emotional damage caused by the breakup. I was regularly watching porn and masturbatig again. Then I met someone and became "fuckbuddies" then a couple. This time we had a totally working sexlife, even though I didnt stop porn and masturbating. At the last month of our relationship I started to experience some problems: not getting hard enough, couldnt maintain erection during intecourse and sometimes low libido.
When we broke up I didnt think it was my previous addiction again, but now I met a girl and I couldnt get hard again. Luckily she understood and said that we have time, but it turns out that she is going abroad in one month for a long period. Now I am quite desperate, because I have feelings for herand really want to get intimate with her, but I am not sure if one month is enough for me to reboot.
I stopped watching porn a week ago, but cant help touching myself sometimes, but I will stop it now too. She regularly sends me nudes, do you think it is bad for my reboot?
After this one week without porn I feel most of the time that my libido is really low, it is kind of scary, but I read all the articles on the subject and they say it is normal.
I also thought about taking testosterone enhancing supplements (tribulus terrestris), I think MAYBE it will help, but I'm not sure. I used it sometime back, but then my sex life was normal with my first partner and it just made my high libido even higher (it was great though).
What are your thoughts on this? Please help, I'm really desperate, I feel like I don't have enough time!!