When to rewire?

challenged

Active Member
I think it has been often stated on these pages and on YBOP  that the rebooting process is an "individual experiment," and that each person has to determine what is right for them (putting aside the basics of no porn, no PMO, etc.).  But I thought the consensus was that if you're not having an O, rewiring (i.e., engaging in sexual activity with a partner) is something that be started from the beginning of the reboot -- with the caveat that if it causes you problems, then perhaps you should wait a while.

But I thought the primary concern with rewiring was having an O, and the "chaser effect" increasing the temptation to use porn.
 
Top