phone sex

[NeverSayNever]

what is your take on phone sex with someone you already know?
I used to that a lot few years ago with a couple of girls that I was dating and sometimes was mixing my porn fantasy with it. There is this one girl that I met in the summer, we never had sex and she lives in the US while I live in Sweden, and we have been talking for quite some time and yesterday our conversation drifted into sex and we ended up having phone sex for almost like one hour. I really enjoyed it, but I am not sure if that is partly triggered with my missing of porn for a week now (we had talked about sex many times before when I was still watching porn a lot and not even once was tempted to have phone sex).

 

[deadend]

I think it's probably bad thing rather than good. Everytime I have stopped watching porn and masturbating, the few next days I basically text only about sex to my gf. Tell her what i want to do etc. trying to make porn come "true". I don't know about you but I kept always imaging it and used images of porn in my head to help with that. It made staying away from porn a lot harder and I guess you could even consider that "porn".

But if its pretty vanilla stuff you were talking and you didn't get an urge to watch porn or didn't think about porn, maybe its fine then. But I still would recommend you not to do it too often.