Perseverance
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I'm eleven days into my Reboot but have a few questions.
Question One:
?I have M a few times, but not O, does that mean I have failed my reboot and need to start the count over again??
I?ve very quickly started getting morning wood again. It had only recently begun to drop off after a year of solid PMOing. I?ve been battling with PMO for years, but this last relapse has just been a solid yearlong binge.
But here?s the thing. For a few moments on a number of mornings I have M. I didn?t O and I didn?t think thoughts about P, but focused upon thinking about a girl that I am dating. This morning was the worst. I M for about two minutes. I did not come close to O though.
Does the fact that I have touched myself mean that I?ve failed my hard reboot and need to set my day count to 0? Or, if I stop M for even a short time from here in, does that mean I don?t need to turn back the clock?
Question Two:
Me and the girl I am dating are currently living at opposite ends of the country from each other, only meeting up every month or so. Every evening we Skype.
Is Skyping with her a bad thing? It?s the only way we can communicate as its free and we both have phone setups that cost money.
Does the fact I am Skyping with her invalidate my Reboot, as even though I know there?s another person at the end of the line, what I?m really talking to and thinking looks beautiful are pixels, and my brain
Question Three:
Me and her will be meeting up next week. Will O with her mean I haven?t done the hard 90?
Sorry if these questions are common ones, I?m just anxious that my fresh start hasn?t quite been as fresh I was making myself balieve?
Question One:
?I have M a few times, but not O, does that mean I have failed my reboot and need to start the count over again??
I?ve very quickly started getting morning wood again. It had only recently begun to drop off after a year of solid PMOing. I?ve been battling with PMO for years, but this last relapse has just been a solid yearlong binge.
But here?s the thing. For a few moments on a number of mornings I have M. I didn?t O and I didn?t think thoughts about P, but focused upon thinking about a girl that I am dating. This morning was the worst. I M for about two minutes. I did not come close to O though.
Does the fact that I have touched myself mean that I?ve failed my hard reboot and need to set my day count to 0? Or, if I stop M for even a short time from here in, does that mean I don?t need to turn back the clock?
Question Two:
Me and the girl I am dating are currently living at opposite ends of the country from each other, only meeting up every month or so. Every evening we Skype.
Is Skyping with her a bad thing? It?s the only way we can communicate as its free and we both have phone setups that cost money.
Does the fact I am Skyping with her invalidate my Reboot, as even though I know there?s another person at the end of the line, what I?m really talking to and thinking looks beautiful are pixels, and my brain
Question Three:
Me and her will be meeting up next week. Will O with her mean I haven?t done the hard 90?
Sorry if these questions are common ones, I?m just anxious that my fresh start hasn?t quite been as fresh I was making myself balieve?