DE Problem

[Mark123]

Been MO/PMO free for about a month now as I've been having DE problems. Had my gf over today and we ended up in bed, no problems getting hard but she was giving me a HJ and used lube, I felt like i was going to ejaculate for about 10 minutes but just couldn't then I started to go soft.

Really tempted to wack off now as I'm worried about if I'll be able to after a month of being M free. Should I MO or is this a sign of improvement and that I should keep abstaining?

Not so much a ED issue, but have a terrible problem with DE and not been able to finish with my gf yet. Anyone else going through this and have some wise words to share?

Thanks guys

 

[tostadora]

Mark123,

I was having DE troubles and the reverted at 33 days. So be patient, it'll probably happen in the near future.

 

[Mark123]

Mark123,

I was having DE troubles and the reverted at 33 days. So be patient, it'll probably happen in the near future.

Thanks for the reply man - means a lot

Really hope so, will keep you updated. Thanks again

 

[leram]

Cold shower, or hypothermic shock makes your body release a cocktail of good hormones. Not only it will help you regenerate your dopamine receptors, but it will give you energy, less stress, and maybe, I say maybe, more balls (it takes courage at first to do so).

 

[Doc74]

I have the delayed ejac problem (or often, I just can't cum at all). I have been dating the hottest lady for 8 months - and sex is spectacular. The first few months I had some issues with getting or keeping an erection. As I started to cut back on porn, that problem got smaller and I haven't had an issue with getting an erection in the past 3 months. The last month or so they are rock hard, like when I was very young ( in my 50s).
But I often suffer from not being able to cum. I know this sounds weird, but my GF gets so wet, she is really slippery and thus a little less friction. So I believe that only would delay me cumming a little while, I am convinced that now that I've totally stopped PMOing (only 2 1/2 weeks into it) it will get better with time. I can cum inside her 10-20% of the time. Often I finish with my hand. And sometimes I don't cum at all - and that has shocked me how little it doesn't bother me. She is super satisfied and I really love that.
But I know she prefers it when I can cum, ideally together.
We're all different, but I believe the longer I move past PMOing, the more I'll be able to cum during sex.
My advice - keep away from porn - whatever that means to you. Movies, pics, clips, even master bating to Victoria secret catalogues etc. even when you're with your GF, don't visualize someone else, or the money shot, just her. I believe we can visualize the images, try to stay away from that.
Best of luck, stay strong brother!

 

[Avar]

Any updates?

 

[Mark123]

Any updates?

Hey Avar,

Thanks for remembering me

Not had sex or done anything with my SO for just over a week as we've both been really busy with work (both work at the same company) - so not had chance to test yet and obviously I'm not going to MO. When something happens (hopefully very soon) I'll post it on my thread I'm trying to keep a journal on.

http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=3069.0

Cheers

M

 

[Brooklyn Jerry]

Any updates?
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I am 65 and at times have the same problem. Sometimes during intercourse I feel like I am going to cum to soon, so I pull out and do something else for a while, then I may not get hard enough to penetrate, so my SO will go down on me, I will for sure get hard, but sometimes I need to take matters into my own hand so to speak. Probably do jerking off so in the past with a mans grip. I relapsed a two weeks ago, and it made matters worse. Haven't had sex since last week,and haven't looked at any porn. I hope things work better for me this weekend.