So I am starting again, need to be accountable. For the past while I have just been resetting my counter but not posting. So I am going to start completely again...
I am 27 years old and have been addicted to porn since about 13 - the only thing that really stopped it was drink and drugs. I am now clean and sober and now porn is the issue again.
My use seems to have escalated the more I try to stop, each relapse getting worse. The material I am using really disturbs me. I just discovered the dark web and there really is no end to how low you can go with that. My head actually hurts.
I have that familiar feeling of guilt and Shame. Embarrassment and isolation. Just really not liking myself. As a result I am snapping at people and irritable. I can't concentate on anything really. Just spent about 50% of my day at work on the darkweb and the rest is the time struggling to concentrate on work at all.
I need to be accountable - I am going to call a friend and get honest with him but I also wanted to be honest in this forum. Break the anonymity of porn. I really need some help with this, I want to be me again! I am also scared that this stuff will lead my back to drugs and I really don't think I can do all that again, I might not find my way back.
So anyway that's it, I think this is my third journal and I pray it will be my last. God and my friends in a 12 step fellowship helped me back to reality from drugs and now I need God and fellow porn addicts to help me back to reality from this.
Thanks for reading this, I wish you all well on your journey
I am 27 years old and have been addicted to porn since about 13 - the only thing that really stopped it was drink and drugs. I am now clean and sober and now porn is the issue again.
My use seems to have escalated the more I try to stop, each relapse getting worse. The material I am using really disturbs me. I just discovered the dark web and there really is no end to how low you can go with that. My head actually hurts.
I have that familiar feeling of guilt and Shame. Embarrassment and isolation. Just really not liking myself. As a result I am snapping at people and irritable. I can't concentate on anything really. Just spent about 50% of my day at work on the darkweb and the rest is the time struggling to concentrate on work at all.
I need to be accountable - I am going to call a friend and get honest with him but I also wanted to be honest in this forum. Break the anonymity of porn. I really need some help with this, I want to be me again! I am also scared that this stuff will lead my back to drugs and I really don't think I can do all that again, I might not find my way back.
So anyway that's it, I think this is my third journal and I pray it will be my last. God and my friends in a 12 step fellowship helped me back to reality from drugs and now I need God and fellow porn addicts to help me back to reality from this.
Thanks for reading this, I wish you all well on your journey